The World's Best BJ!

Love it
This is step one and this is the most important step of them all when it comes to going down on your man. It's not likely that you'll do a good job if you don't enjoy what you're doing, right? Exactly! Show him some enthusiasm. Use body language or just plain old dirty talk to let him know that you've been anticipating devouring him all night (or morning…what man doesn't love to start his day with some amazing head?).

Get Down and Dirty With It
Let go of any idea you may have that you're going to get the job done right and look cute while doing it. Sorry ladies, but its one or the other. Don't be afraid to pull your hair back, scratch up your knees a little and get messy.

No Teeth!
Any man will tell you the number one rule for giving head is not to use your teeth. Make sure that any time your mouth comes into contact with him you tuck your lips over your teeth.
Some men do enjoy the feeling of teeth against the sensitive skin of their shaft. This is a personal preference. So, ASK before you decide to go that route. Pain does not equal pleasure for every man in this area.

Oral Angles
Different positions for oral sex can enhance the experience for him or be more comfortable for you.

Something Basic
A position that proves to be less strenuous is kneeling or squatting in from of him while he stands. This way your throat is directly aligned with his penis. Having your throat in a straight line with him means he can slide past your soft palette without overly agitating your gag reflex. This is an ideal position for trying to deep throat if you're interested.

Head Rush
This is another good way to angle yourself in order to take all of him into your throat and mouth. Lie on your back at the edge of the bed while your head hangs off. Instruct your man to stand facing you and slowly allow him to push himself into your mouth. Keep in mind that you want to start out slow. You may even want to hold his hips at first to keep him from doing any damage. Then, as you become more comfortable you can let go and allow him to take the reins.

He Can Do It, Too
Here's one that's a bit more fun for him. Lie on your back and direct him to put his knees on either side of your head. This is probably a position you've found yourself in a few times if he does his job right. While in this position he has control of how fast, slow, shallow, or deep he goes into your mouth. This is a great way to learn what feels good to him. Take notes. Place a pillow under your neck and head for support and keep in mind that communication is key for this angle. Thrusting too hard could hurt your throat or cause your teeth to skim his penis.

Suck Him Sideways
When you've got him lying on his back, the normal thing is probably for you to get between his knees on your stomach or all fours. Switch it up a little. Tell him to put both his legs together while you're at his side. In this position, you'll literally be sucking him sideways. Believe it or not, it creates a bit of a different sensation for him.

Hot Spots
There are a few key spots on his member that you should pay very special attention to --the head, the 1-2 inches of shaft directly under the head, and the underside of the penis [mostly close to the base]. These three spots are commonly the most responsive to motion and pressure. Running a strong tongue or lips along any of these spots is sure to make him tingle.

Use it or lose it..
Countless men say that women too often forget about their tongue while going down. Be conscious of what's going on inside of your mouth. Simply concentrating on the mechanical up and down motion isn't enough. Make sure that your tongue is always pressed against his penis and always moving… massaging. Flick it around. Make it firm, make it soft. Play with him and wait for his response.

Keep It Interesting
Something that too many women don't understand about fellatio is that it can get boring. Too much stimulation on any part of his member for long enough can cause the spot to become desensitized. How do you make sure this doesn't happen? Give him lots to pay attention to. You want to change up the rhythm, speed, pressure, and stroke of your tongue, mouth and hands. Keep him saying "Mmm! There's more?"For example: Going from soft, slow, teasing strokes to a more vigorous and firm stroke. Or moving onto the head and sucking and licking only there with shallow strokes. Then, transitioning into longer, deeper strokes taking all or most of him into your mouth. Also, if your jaw or neck feels weak you can stop and incorporate your hands for a while. Lick or kiss the head while using your hands and let your neck rest, but don't stop altogether. No excuses, ladies!

Your Little Helpers
HANDS- They take up the slack when your jaw or neck get a little tired and become especially handy if his penis is too long to fit all the way into your mouth. Think of them as your little helpers. Using your hands can give the feeling that you're taking him in deeper than you actually are. Do this by placing two or three fingers around his shaft (or your entire hand if you're lucky) and move them in sync with the stroke and rhythm of your mouth. Make sure that when you use your hands there's enough saliva or lube to go around. Friction is the enemy of good head. ~You can also substitute with a toy~ Have a party to learn more about that!

The Wandering Hand
Your hands can also do some exploring while your mouth handles his member. Some men enjoy firm tugging on the testes. Others find pleasure when rhythmic pressure is applied to the area between the scrotum and the anus called the perineum [otherwise known as the taint]. You'll want to keep in mind that some men do not appreciate a wandering hand. Again, it's important to ask what your man likes to know best whether this is a do or don't.

The Big Finale
This is my favorite part. Your man is panting and thrusting at your every motion and he grabs your hand tight to utter those four magic words, "I'm-about-to-cum.." What do you do? Don't stop!

Whatever you're doing in that moment is what needs to keep happening at an even faster pace. Yes, your jaw hurts and there's sweat running into your eyes, but you're going to keep going!

Postplay
Some men like to have the tip of their penis licked and sucked after orgasm. Others prefer pulling or squeezing on the testes. Lots won't want you to touch anything whatsoever. It's a personal preference that you have to investigate in order to please your man to the fullest extent.

Plain and Simple
You could follow every single tip I've given thus far, but none are more important that this: Communicate and Practice. No two men are just alike. Never be afraid to ask questions. Your man will thank you and be more than willing to instruct. You won't find one man that's not eager to help you practice pleasing him.