I have finally gotten off my butt and gotten up with the times! You all know it's not because of laziness, its just sure "busy-ness" LMAO.
Adddddddddddd ME!
Danielle Cotton paromanceparties@gmail.com
I am really excited about meeting new peeps!
If you haven't already, BOOK YOUR PARTY NOW! I am double booking Saturdays and allowing Wednesday Night parties too!
My date book fills up fast and I am not booking past Feb 15th yet!
Monday, December 29, 2008
Friday, December 26, 2008
Win a $500 Shopping Spree, A Stripper Pole or A Sex Swing!
Win a $500 Shopping Spree, A Stripper Pole or A Sex Swing!
I am so excited about 2009, that I want to start it off with FIREWORKS, baby!
I will be giving 3 lucky hosts a $500 Shopping Spree from my entire catalog. I will then award another 3 lucky hosts with a Stripper Pole or Sex Swing! That's a really great chance of winning when there are 6 different prizes! If you were thinking about having a party before... now is the time to get your party booked!
All hosts of parties $300+ in sales and closed out from January 1- February 14th will be entered to win!
Host a party on a Wednesday 6pm party or a Saturday 1pm party get double entries into the raffle!
If there are any questions please feel free to contact me paromanceparties@gmail.com
* The winners will be pulled on February 15, 2008
* Prize to be shipped to your home address through UPS within 2 weeks of raffle date.
*Shopping Spree will need a phone conference to make selections for products.
I am so excited about 2009, that I want to start it off with FIREWORKS, baby!
I will be giving 3 lucky hosts a $500 Shopping Spree from my entire catalog. I will then award another 3 lucky hosts with a Stripper Pole or Sex Swing! That's a really great chance of winning when there are 6 different prizes! If you were thinking about having a party before... now is the time to get your party booked!
All hosts of parties $300+ in sales and closed out from January 1- February 14th will be entered to win!
Host a party on a Wednesday 6pm party or a Saturday 1pm party get double entries into the raffle!
If there are any questions please feel free to contact me paromanceparties@gmail.com
* The winners will be pulled on February 15, 2008
* Prize to be shipped to your home address through UPS within 2 weeks of raffle date.
*Shopping Spree will need a phone conference to make selections for products.
How to Start Your Business:
*Management Bonus ~ Become a Manager and Be Rewarded! $50 - $1700 Mangement Bonus
*Executive Perks ~ Rewards for outstanding commitments.
* Recruiting Executive Perks ~ To earn this you must have 24 Qualified Recruits within a 12 month period. Maintain it by 8 new qualified recruits every 6 months.Note: Membership is immediate if you recruit 24 qualified recruits sooner than 12 months.
* Sales Executive Perks ~ Have $2500 in sales for 12 consecutive months. To maintain you must continue to have $2500 in sales per month there after.
The Perks Include:*50% commission *$100 in free supplies *Free FYP Replicated Site*$100 in free products *Free Shipping and Handling on Perks
*Company Wide Recognition in Monthly For Your Pleasure Newsletter
*Monthly For Your Pleasure Promotions
- Earn Pleasure Points Towards Convention
- Promo Paychecks for Business Supplies
- Earn CASH in your company account
*Yearly Trip Promotions
- This year its HAWAII!!
Replicated and Personal Websites:
*Replicated For Your Pleasure Websites ~ A fully functional online catalog. Earning you FULL commission on ALL online orders. Allows you the capabilities for Online Events and more.
*Consultant Locator $24.95 One time Set Up Fee / $14.95 Monthly (Optional) or $149.50 full year payment ( Get 2 months FREE) $24.95 One Time Set Up Fee
*Personal Websites are permitted and can be linked to your For Your Pleasure Replicated Website. Allows you to show off your personal style!
Personalized Back Office to submit orders to For Your Pleasure
*Submit orders directly to Home Office
*Track orders
*Send Invites, emails (to customers and down-line)
*Easily organizes your customer contacts
*Organize and keep track your bookings
*Online Parties/ Customers can place orders on open parties
*Keep track of your sales and what products you sell
* Keep track of your downline and thier monthly goals/achievements
*Complete Business Tools and Documents in one place
Education and Training:
*For Your Pleasure has an On Site, Personal Sex Educator, Ducky DooLittle
*Sex Education Video's by Ducky DooLittle
*Training DVD
*Annual Training and Awards Social
*Weekly Chats
*Monthly Success Calls
*FYP Forum
*Product Knowledge Manual & Business Manual
*Personal Sponsor Training for Teams
Shipping, Inventory, Sales Tax, Merchant Accounts:
*FYP sorts, packages and ships ALL orders direct to your customers.
*No Inventory or Stock required
*No Sales Tax ID Required ~ FYP takes care of this for us.
*No Merchant Account Needed ~ FYP processes credit card payments for $12monthly. No Limit on card processing, and this payment is all that is required to stay active.
For Your Pleasure Hostess Program:
*100% Company Paid Hostess Rewards
*10% of Party Sales *Bonus Spending *Buying Customer Discounts* Hostess Exclusives * Monthly Specials * Booking Bonus Credits
Customer Support/Customer Service and Return Policy:
*For Your Pleasure offers a superior customer support system for consultants and customers.
* Personal Customer Service Representative your assigned to for personal one on one assistance from Home Office
*30 Day Return Policy on defective/broken products.
*Quick shipping on back ordered products
Quotas and Recruiting:
*Once qualified there is NO minimum sales requirement
*No recruiting required.
Building Residual Income Through Recruiting:
*You can earn a residual income through recruiting if you so desire. You can earn:* Management Bonuses*Commission Overrides: up to 10% and down 5 levels deep.
Product Lines:
*120 Page Color Catalog
*Over 1200 Products including Lingerie up to size 3X
* Tantus- 100% Silicone- Safest Products on the market
*Earn Your Kit (Open For Business Show) ~For Your Pleasure matched your party sales $ for $
Host a live party or catalog show to earn a kit.
*Purchase a Kit ~ We offer 3 pre designed kits to choose from$250 * $500 * $1000
*Note: You may purchase kit online or by contacting a consultant.
Host a live party or catalog show to earn a kit.
*Purchase a Kit ~ We offer 3 pre designed kits to choose from$250 * $500 * $1000
*Note: You may purchase kit online or by contacting a consultant.
SPECIAL NOTE: ALL New Consultants receive a 2 month subscription to Belinda Ellsworth's, Step Into Success Website for extra training perk!
ALL KITS: Come with For Your Pleasure Personalized Business Cards and 140 Labels from Vista Print to add to your products.
ALL KITS: Come with For Your Pleasure Personalized Business Cards and 140 Labels from Vista Print to add to your products.
Start Out Commission Levels:
*Earned kit starts at 35% commission and bumps to 40% when you kit qualify. (Exception with a $1000 Open For Business Show… Starts at 40%)
*Purchased Kit starts at 40% commission level
*Note: Your commission never changes once you bump up
What it takes to qualify: $1000 in sales within 60 days. Everyone must have a 4 show line up to start.
Special Bonuses and Rewards:
*Quick Qualifying Award ~ Qualify within 60 days and HAVE $2000 in sales you earn $100 in product for $30.
*Personal Monthly Sales Bonus ~ Rewards you for your sales! $7000 + 10% Bonus $6000 - $6999 9% Bonus
$5000 - $5999 8% Bonus
$4000 - $4999 7% Back
$3000 - $3999 6% Bonus
*Earned kit starts at 35% commission and bumps to 40% when you kit qualify. (Exception with a $1000 Open For Business Show… Starts at 40%)
*Purchased Kit starts at 40% commission level
*Note: Your commission never changes once you bump up
What it takes to qualify: $1000 in sales within 60 days. Everyone must have a 4 show line up to start.
Special Bonuses and Rewards:
*Quick Qualifying Award ~ Qualify within 60 days and HAVE $2000 in sales you earn $100 in product for $30.
*Personal Monthly Sales Bonus ~ Rewards you for your sales! $7000 + 10% Bonus $6000 - $6999 9% Bonus
$5000 - $5999 8% Bonus
$4000 - $4999 7% Back
$3000 - $3999 6% Bonus
$2000 - $2999 5% Bonus
*Management Bonus ~ Become a Manager and Be Rewarded! $50 - $1700 Mangement Bonus
*Executive Perks ~ Rewards for outstanding commitments.
* Recruiting Executive Perks ~ To earn this you must have 24 Qualified Recruits within a 12 month period. Maintain it by 8 new qualified recruits every 6 months.Note: Membership is immediate if you recruit 24 qualified recruits sooner than 12 months.
* Sales Executive Perks ~ Have $2500 in sales for 12 consecutive months. To maintain you must continue to have $2500 in sales per month there after.
The Perks Include:*50% commission *$100 in free supplies *Free FYP Replicated Site*$100 in free products *Free Shipping and Handling on Perks
*Company Wide Recognition in Monthly For Your Pleasure Newsletter
*Monthly For Your Pleasure Promotions
- Earn Pleasure Points Towards Convention
- Promo Paychecks for Business Supplies
- Earn CASH in your company account
*Yearly Trip Promotions
- This year its HAWAII!!
Replicated and Personal Websites:
*Replicated For Your Pleasure Websites ~ A fully functional online catalog. Earning you FULL commission on ALL online orders. Allows you the capabilities for Online Events and more.
*Consultant Locator $24.95 One time Set Up Fee / $14.95 Monthly (Optional) or $149.50 full year payment ( Get 2 months FREE) $24.95 One Time Set Up Fee
*Personal Websites are permitted and can be linked to your For Your Pleasure Replicated Website. Allows you to show off your personal style!
Personalized Back Office to submit orders to For Your Pleasure
*Submit orders directly to Home Office
*Track orders
*Send Invites, emails (to customers and down-line)
*Easily organizes your customer contacts
*Organize and keep track your bookings
*Online Parties/ Customers can place orders on open parties
*Keep track of your sales and what products you sell
* Keep track of your downline and thier monthly goals/achievements
*Complete Business Tools and Documents in one place
Education and Training:
*For Your Pleasure has an On Site, Personal Sex Educator, Ducky DooLittle
*Sex Education Video's by Ducky DooLittle
*Training DVD
*Annual Training and Awards Social
*Weekly Chats
*Monthly Success Calls
*FYP Forum
*Product Knowledge Manual & Business Manual
*Personal Sponsor Training for Teams
Shipping, Inventory, Sales Tax, Merchant Accounts:
*FYP sorts, packages and ships ALL orders direct to your customers.
*No Inventory or Stock required
*No Sales Tax ID Required ~ FYP takes care of this for us.
*No Merchant Account Needed ~ FYP processes credit card payments for $12monthly. No Limit on card processing, and this payment is all that is required to stay active.
For Your Pleasure Hostess Program:
*100% Company Paid Hostess Rewards
*10% of Party Sales *Bonus Spending *Buying Customer Discounts* Hostess Exclusives * Monthly Specials * Booking Bonus Credits
Customer Support/Customer Service and Return Policy:
*For Your Pleasure offers a superior customer support system for consultants and customers.
* Personal Customer Service Representative your assigned to for personal one on one assistance from Home Office
*30 Day Return Policy on defective/broken products.
*Quick shipping on back ordered products
Quotas and Recruiting:
*Once qualified there is NO minimum sales requirement
*No recruiting required.
Building Residual Income Through Recruiting:
*You can earn a residual income through recruiting if you so desire. You can earn:* Management Bonuses*Commission Overrides: up to 10% and down 5 levels deep.
Product Lines:
*120 Page Color Catalog
*Over 1200 Products including Lingerie up to size 3X
* Tantus- 100% Silicone- Safest Products on the market
5 Signs It's Time to Move On!
5 Signs It's Time to Move On
by Jenna Lebel, Experience, Inc.
When you landed that new job, the world looked great. Now it's been a while, and one of your worst fears has come true -- you're unhappy in your job. When you're spending at least five days a week at work, it makes sense that you'd want to like what you're doing. But there are times when you're in a position or company that doesn't work for you.
If you're unhappy with your job -- and everybody around you probably already knows it -- it might be time for a career transition. Results from an Experience.com survey provide some insight into making the change. According to the survey, the top signal that it's time to transition to a new job is not the boss yelling at you. In fact, the number-one warning sign is:
* Your job has become boring. Most people are not in it just for the money. On the contrary, they're looking for something that gives them the chance to make a difference. If, in fact, you're finding a lack of intellectual stimulation and challenge, you have lots of company -- nearly 30 percent of respondents cited this as their biggest indicator it's time to leave a job.
* Another warning signal to workers that it may be time to make a transition is the lack of growth opportunities. If you're in a dead end job, with no place to move (unless a lot of people grow old and retire), you're in trouble. Twenty-two percent of respondents felt trapped in a position with little room for career progression.
* Others felt they were receiving inadequate pay or benefits. It may not all be about money, but some of it certainly is. Do you feel underpaid? Do you have lousy (or no) benefits? Seventeen percent of employees feel the economic pinch, and when that happens, may have to decide whether their job is really worth it.
* Work friends are very important. If your relationships with co-workers have gone bad, that's a definite sign that it's time to move on. Seventeen percent of those surveyed agreed -- if you're not getting along, you're going to feel like you're suffocating.
* Lack of investment in the company's goals/mission. This is more than just a self-esteem thing, but was mentioned by 13% of the respondents as a key factor indicating a career change. You need to be part of the big picture, or you're not in the picture at all.
Once you encounter the warning signs that it might be time to make a career transition, how long do you wait before you leave?
Most people (52%) said they would wait at least a year to see if it improved. Others were not as patient and hopeful. Thirty-two percent of respondents said they would quit as soon as they found another job, while 16% reported they would stay no longer than six months.
"When you clearly communicate you are under-challenged, wait a few months to see if your superior responds, and if not, it's time to take your knowledge and expertise to a company that will let you grow," one respondent said.
Copyright 2008, Experience, Inc.
by Jenna Lebel, Experience, Inc.
When you landed that new job, the world looked great. Now it's been a while, and one of your worst fears has come true -- you're unhappy in your job. When you're spending at least five days a week at work, it makes sense that you'd want to like what you're doing. But there are times when you're in a position or company that doesn't work for you.
If you're unhappy with your job -- and everybody around you probably already knows it -- it might be time for a career transition. Results from an Experience.com survey provide some insight into making the change. According to the survey, the top signal that it's time to transition to a new job is not the boss yelling at you. In fact, the number-one warning sign is:
* Your job has become boring. Most people are not in it just for the money. On the contrary, they're looking for something that gives them the chance to make a difference. If, in fact, you're finding a lack of intellectual stimulation and challenge, you have lots of company -- nearly 30 percent of respondents cited this as their biggest indicator it's time to leave a job.
* Another warning signal to workers that it may be time to make a transition is the lack of growth opportunities. If you're in a dead end job, with no place to move (unless a lot of people grow old and retire), you're in trouble. Twenty-two percent of respondents felt trapped in a position with little room for career progression.
* Others felt they were receiving inadequate pay or benefits. It may not all be about money, but some of it certainly is. Do you feel underpaid? Do you have lousy (or no) benefits? Seventeen percent of employees feel the economic pinch, and when that happens, may have to decide whether their job is really worth it.
* Work friends are very important. If your relationships with co-workers have gone bad, that's a definite sign that it's time to move on. Seventeen percent of those surveyed agreed -- if you're not getting along, you're going to feel like you're suffocating.
* Lack of investment in the company's goals/mission. This is more than just a self-esteem thing, but was mentioned by 13% of the respondents as a key factor indicating a career change. You need to be part of the big picture, or you're not in the picture at all.
Once you encounter the warning signs that it might be time to make a career transition, how long do you wait before you leave?
Most people (52%) said they would wait at least a year to see if it improved. Others were not as patient and hopeful. Thirty-two percent of respondents said they would quit as soon as they found another job, while 16% reported they would stay no longer than six months.
"When you clearly communicate you are under-challenged, wait a few months to see if your superior responds, and if not, it's time to take your knowledge and expertise to a company that will let you grow," one respondent said.
Copyright 2008, Experience, Inc.
Improve yoru Marriage in the bedroom!
Improve your marriage.... in the bedroom
Do you think that your sex and intimacy can be improved? If so, you may be nervous about discussing the subject with your husband. After all, your husband may wrongly get the impression that he doesn't satisfy you anymore. If you are interested in improving your intimacy with your husband, consider the approaches below.
DateIf you and your husband have been married for a while, there is a good chance that you haven't gone out on a date in a while. Many married couples get to a point in their relationship that is commonly called "the comfort zone." This zone is not one that you want to be in, as your relationship may feel more like a friendship. To prevent this from happening, ask your husband out on a date.Although many wives believe that their husbands should do the date asking, you sometimes have to take hold of the situation yourself. Now may be one of those times. Choose an activity that is romantic, such as a romantic comedy for a movie or a nice restaurant This can help to spark a little bit of romance and passion in your relationship, which may lead to better and closer intimacy at home.
Show Romantic GesturesWhen it comes to "wowing," in a relationship, women sometimes think that men should do it. You will also want to "wow," your husband, like you did the first time that you met. One of the easiest ways to do so is by performing a number of romantic gestures. When out shopping with your husband, grab their hand and hold it. When walking by them in the house, give them a quick kiss. Sending a love note to work with them is another romantic gesture that you may want to try.
Be Sexy and SeductiveIf your marriage enters into the above mentioned comfort zone, sex and intimacy may seem like a thing of the past. If you do have sex, it may seem more like a responsibly, a chore, or even work. To help reduce these feelings, be sexy and seductive. Do not wait for your husband to initiate sex and do not ask if your husband is up for it first, just get right down to business. Strip for your husband or simply just remove their clothes. Snuggle next to them on the couch and just start massaging their whole body. You may be surprised just how easy and effective it is to be sexy and seductive.
Be SpontaneousAs it was previously stated, do not ask your husband if he wants to have sex and do not wait for him to start. Instead, take matters into your own hands. Whether you start with a little bit of foreplay or jump right into the intercourse, do so. Your husband should like the surprise. Also, remember that being spontaneous involves having sex at different times of the day, as well as in different locations of the house.
Offer to Experiment In the BedroomTo improve sex and intimacy it is important to know that a change can do you good. You may want to suggest to your husband that you experiment in the bedroom or take them up on their suggestion to do so. Remember that experimenting in the bedroom doesn't have to mean getting an additional sex partner or doing something that makes you feel uncomfortable. A new sex position may be just what your relationship needs.
Do you think that your sex and intimacy can be improved? If so, you may be nervous about discussing the subject with your husband. After all, your husband may wrongly get the impression that he doesn't satisfy you anymore. If you are interested in improving your intimacy with your husband, consider the approaches below.
DateIf you and your husband have been married for a while, there is a good chance that you haven't gone out on a date in a while. Many married couples get to a point in their relationship that is commonly called "the comfort zone." This zone is not one that you want to be in, as your relationship may feel more like a friendship. To prevent this from happening, ask your husband out on a date.Although many wives believe that their husbands should do the date asking, you sometimes have to take hold of the situation yourself. Now may be one of those times. Choose an activity that is romantic, such as a romantic comedy for a movie or a nice restaurant This can help to spark a little bit of romance and passion in your relationship, which may lead to better and closer intimacy at home.
Show Romantic GesturesWhen it comes to "wowing," in a relationship, women sometimes think that men should do it. You will also want to "wow," your husband, like you did the first time that you met. One of the easiest ways to do so is by performing a number of romantic gestures. When out shopping with your husband, grab their hand and hold it. When walking by them in the house, give them a quick kiss. Sending a love note to work with them is another romantic gesture that you may want to try.
Be Sexy and SeductiveIf your marriage enters into the above mentioned comfort zone, sex and intimacy may seem like a thing of the past. If you do have sex, it may seem more like a responsibly, a chore, or even work. To help reduce these feelings, be sexy and seductive. Do not wait for your husband to initiate sex and do not ask if your husband is up for it first, just get right down to business. Strip for your husband or simply just remove their clothes. Snuggle next to them on the couch and just start massaging their whole body. You may be surprised just how easy and effective it is to be sexy and seductive.
Be SpontaneousAs it was previously stated, do not ask your husband if he wants to have sex and do not wait for him to start. Instead, take matters into your own hands. Whether you start with a little bit of foreplay or jump right into the intercourse, do so. Your husband should like the surprise. Also, remember that being spontaneous involves having sex at different times of the day, as well as in different locations of the house.
Offer to Experiment In the BedroomTo improve sex and intimacy it is important to know that a change can do you good. You may want to suggest to your husband that you experiment in the bedroom or take them up on their suggestion to do so. Remember that experimenting in the bedroom doesn't have to mean getting an additional sex partner or doing something that makes you feel uncomfortable. A new sex position may be just what your relationship needs.
The World's Best BJ!
Love it
This is step one and this is the most important step of them all when it comes to going down on your man. It's not likely that you'll do a good job if you don't enjoy what you're doing, right? Exactly! Show him some enthusiasm. Use body language or just plain old dirty talk to let him know that you've been anticipating devouring him all night (or morning…what man doesn't love to start his day with some amazing head?).
Get Down and Dirty With It
Let go of any idea you may have that you're going to get the job done right and look cute while doing it. Sorry ladies, but its one or the other. Don't be afraid to pull your hair back, scratch up your knees a little and get messy.
No Teeth!
Any man will tell you the number one rule for giving head is not to use your teeth. Make sure that any time your mouth comes into contact with him you tuck your lips over your teeth.
Some men do enjoy the feeling of teeth against the sensitive skin of their shaft. This is a personal preference. So, ASK before you decide to go that route. Pain does not equal pleasure for every man in this area.
Oral Angles
Different positions for oral sex can enhance the experience for him or be more comfortable for you.
Something Basic
A position that proves to be less strenuous is kneeling or squatting in from of him while he stands. This way your throat is directly aligned with his penis. Having your throat in a straight line with him means he can slide past your soft palette without overly agitating your gag reflex. This is an ideal position for trying to deep throat if you're interested.
Head Rush
This is another good way to angle yourself in order to take all of him into your throat and mouth. Lie on your back at the edge of the bed while your head hangs off. Instruct your man to stand facing you and slowly allow him to push himself into your mouth. Keep in mind that you want to start out slow. You may even want to hold his hips at first to keep him from doing any damage. Then, as you become more comfortable you can let go and allow him to take the reins.
He Can Do It, Too
Here's one that's a bit more fun for him. Lie on your back and direct him to put his knees on either side of your head. This is probably a position you've found yourself in a few times if he does his job right. While in this position he has control of how fast, slow, shallow, or deep he goes into your mouth. This is a great way to learn what feels good to him. Take notes. Place a pillow under your neck and head for support and keep in mind that communication is key for this angle. Thrusting too hard could hurt your throat or cause your teeth to skim his penis.
Suck Him Sideways
When you've got him lying on his back, the normal thing is probably for you to get between his knees on your stomach or all fours. Switch it up a little. Tell him to put both his legs together while you're at his side. In this position, you'll literally be sucking him sideways. Believe it or not, it creates a bit of a different sensation for him.
Hot Spots
There are a few key spots on his member that you should pay very special attention to --the head, the 1-2 inches of shaft directly under the head, and the underside of the penis [mostly close to the base]. These three spots are commonly the most responsive to motion and pressure. Running a strong tongue or lips along any of these spots is sure to make him tingle.
Use it or lose it..
Countless men say that women too often forget about their tongue while going down. Be conscious of what's going on inside of your mouth. Simply concentrating on the mechanical up and down motion isn't enough. Make sure that your tongue is always pressed against his penis and always moving… massaging. Flick it around. Make it firm, make it soft. Play with him and wait for his response.
Keep It Interesting
Something that too many women don't understand about fellatio is that it can get boring. Too much stimulation on any part of his member for long enough can cause the spot to become desensitized. How do you make sure this doesn't happen? Give him lots to pay attention to. You want to change up the rhythm, speed, pressure, and stroke of your tongue, mouth and hands. Keep him saying "Mmm! There's more?"For example: Going from soft, slow, teasing strokes to a more vigorous and firm stroke. Or moving onto the head and sucking and licking only there with shallow strokes. Then, transitioning into longer, deeper strokes taking all or most of him into your mouth. Also, if your jaw or neck feels weak you can stop and incorporate your hands for a while. Lick or kiss the head while using your hands and let your neck rest, but don't stop altogether. No excuses, ladies!
Your Little Helpers
HANDS- They take up the slack when your jaw or neck get a little tired and become especially handy if his penis is too long to fit all the way into your mouth. Think of them as your little helpers. Using your hands can give the feeling that you're taking him in deeper than you actually are. Do this by placing two or three fingers around his shaft (or your entire hand if you're lucky) and move them in sync with the stroke and rhythm of your mouth. Make sure that when you use your hands there's enough saliva or lube to go around. Friction is the enemy of good head. ~You can also substitute with a toy~ Have a party to learn more about that!
The Wandering Hand
Your hands can also do some exploring while your mouth handles his member. Some men enjoy firm tugging on the testes. Others find pleasure when rhythmic pressure is applied to the area between the scrotum and the anus called the perineum [otherwise known as the taint]. You'll want to keep in mind that some men do not appreciate a wandering hand. Again, it's important to ask what your man likes to know best whether this is a do or don't.
The Big Finale
This is my favorite part. Your man is panting and thrusting at your every motion and he grabs your hand tight to utter those four magic words, "I'm-about-to-cum.." What do you do? Don't stop!
Whatever you're doing in that moment is what needs to keep happening at an even faster pace. Yes, your jaw hurts and there's sweat running into your eyes, but you're going to keep going!
Postplay
Some men like to have the tip of their penis licked and sucked after orgasm. Others prefer pulling or squeezing on the testes. Lots won't want you to touch anything whatsoever. It's a personal preference that you have to investigate in order to please your man to the fullest extent.
Plain and Simple
You could follow every single tip I've given thus far, but none are more important that this: Communicate and Practice. No two men are just alike. Never be afraid to ask questions. Your man will thank you and be more than willing to instruct. You won't find one man that's not eager to help you practice pleasing him.
This is step one and this is the most important step of them all when it comes to going down on your man. It's not likely that you'll do a good job if you don't enjoy what you're doing, right? Exactly! Show him some enthusiasm. Use body language or just plain old dirty talk to let him know that you've been anticipating devouring him all night (or morning…what man doesn't love to start his day with some amazing head?).
Get Down and Dirty With It
Let go of any idea you may have that you're going to get the job done right and look cute while doing it. Sorry ladies, but its one or the other. Don't be afraid to pull your hair back, scratch up your knees a little and get messy.
No Teeth!
Any man will tell you the number one rule for giving head is not to use your teeth. Make sure that any time your mouth comes into contact with him you tuck your lips over your teeth.
Some men do enjoy the feeling of teeth against the sensitive skin of their shaft. This is a personal preference. So, ASK before you decide to go that route. Pain does not equal pleasure for every man in this area.
Oral Angles
Different positions for oral sex can enhance the experience for him or be more comfortable for you.
Something Basic
A position that proves to be less strenuous is kneeling or squatting in from of him while he stands. This way your throat is directly aligned with his penis. Having your throat in a straight line with him means he can slide past your soft palette without overly agitating your gag reflex. This is an ideal position for trying to deep throat if you're interested.
Head Rush
This is another good way to angle yourself in order to take all of him into your throat and mouth. Lie on your back at the edge of the bed while your head hangs off. Instruct your man to stand facing you and slowly allow him to push himself into your mouth. Keep in mind that you want to start out slow. You may even want to hold his hips at first to keep him from doing any damage. Then, as you become more comfortable you can let go and allow him to take the reins.
He Can Do It, Too
Here's one that's a bit more fun for him. Lie on your back and direct him to put his knees on either side of your head. This is probably a position you've found yourself in a few times if he does his job right. While in this position he has control of how fast, slow, shallow, or deep he goes into your mouth. This is a great way to learn what feels good to him. Take notes. Place a pillow under your neck and head for support and keep in mind that communication is key for this angle. Thrusting too hard could hurt your throat or cause your teeth to skim his penis.
Suck Him Sideways
When you've got him lying on his back, the normal thing is probably for you to get between his knees on your stomach or all fours. Switch it up a little. Tell him to put both his legs together while you're at his side. In this position, you'll literally be sucking him sideways. Believe it or not, it creates a bit of a different sensation for him.
Hot Spots
There are a few key spots on his member that you should pay very special attention to --the head, the 1-2 inches of shaft directly under the head, and the underside of the penis [mostly close to the base]. These three spots are commonly the most responsive to motion and pressure. Running a strong tongue or lips along any of these spots is sure to make him tingle.
Use it or lose it..
Countless men say that women too often forget about their tongue while going down. Be conscious of what's going on inside of your mouth. Simply concentrating on the mechanical up and down motion isn't enough. Make sure that your tongue is always pressed against his penis and always moving… massaging. Flick it around. Make it firm, make it soft. Play with him and wait for his response.
Keep It Interesting
Something that too many women don't understand about fellatio is that it can get boring. Too much stimulation on any part of his member for long enough can cause the spot to become desensitized. How do you make sure this doesn't happen? Give him lots to pay attention to. You want to change up the rhythm, speed, pressure, and stroke of your tongue, mouth and hands. Keep him saying "Mmm! There's more?"For example: Going from soft, slow, teasing strokes to a more vigorous and firm stroke. Or moving onto the head and sucking and licking only there with shallow strokes. Then, transitioning into longer, deeper strokes taking all or most of him into your mouth. Also, if your jaw or neck feels weak you can stop and incorporate your hands for a while. Lick or kiss the head while using your hands and let your neck rest, but don't stop altogether. No excuses, ladies!
Your Little Helpers
HANDS- They take up the slack when your jaw or neck get a little tired and become especially handy if his penis is too long to fit all the way into your mouth. Think of them as your little helpers. Using your hands can give the feeling that you're taking him in deeper than you actually are. Do this by placing two or three fingers around his shaft (or your entire hand if you're lucky) and move them in sync with the stroke and rhythm of your mouth. Make sure that when you use your hands there's enough saliva or lube to go around. Friction is the enemy of good head. ~You can also substitute with a toy~ Have a party to learn more about that!
The Wandering Hand
Your hands can also do some exploring while your mouth handles his member. Some men enjoy firm tugging on the testes. Others find pleasure when rhythmic pressure is applied to the area between the scrotum and the anus called the perineum [otherwise known as the taint]. You'll want to keep in mind that some men do not appreciate a wandering hand. Again, it's important to ask what your man likes to know best whether this is a do or don't.
The Big Finale
This is my favorite part. Your man is panting and thrusting at your every motion and he grabs your hand tight to utter those four magic words, "I'm-about-to-cum.." What do you do? Don't stop!
Whatever you're doing in that moment is what needs to keep happening at an even faster pace. Yes, your jaw hurts and there's sweat running into your eyes, but you're going to keep going!
Postplay
Some men like to have the tip of their penis licked and sucked after orgasm. Others prefer pulling or squeezing on the testes. Lots won't want you to touch anything whatsoever. It's a personal preference that you have to investigate in order to please your man to the fullest extent.
Plain and Simple
You could follow every single tip I've given thus far, but none are more important that this: Communicate and Practice. No two men are just alike. Never be afraid to ask questions. Your man will thank you and be more than willing to instruct. You won't find one man that's not eager to help you practice pleasing him.
Chemical Composition of Ejaculate
A very good question came up at a party... regarding the reasons why semen/sperm/ejaculate smelled or tasted the way it did. Basically it is different per man because of thier body chemistry as well as what the body consumes. Junk Food, Alcohol, Cigarettes, Weed, Fruits, Garlic, etc are examples of items consumed that can change the smell and taste of semen... mixed with the normal contents of semen. Here is the entire list of ingredients in semen ( no measurements though, because this is NOT a recipe! LMAO)
Ammonia
Ascorbic Acid
Ash
Calcium
Carbon Dioxide
Chloride
Cholesterol
Citric Acid
Copper
Creatine
Ergothionine
Fructose
Glutathione
Glycerylphosphoryl-choline
Inositol
Lactic Acid
Lipid
Magenesium
Nitrogen, nonprotean
Phosperus ( acid soluble)
Phosphorylcholine
Potassium
Pyruvic Acid
Sodium
Sorbitol
Vitamin B12
Sulfur
Uric Acid
Zinc
What Women Say About Semen
"Ajax cleaner""maybe salty""smells like Ajax, I no longer buy Ajax because of it. Instead I buy Mr. Clean, it's perfumed.""thick Clorox""rancid Elmer's glue""tastes and smells like Brie cheese""It tastes like itself (it's kind of like asking what pepper tastes like).""Indescribable.""It tasted like a thick, globby beer.""I've discovered that although there is a general almond taste to all men -- different men taste a little differently AND depending on how much a man drinks, smokes, and what he's eating -- the semen ranges in bitterness. The less healthy he is the worst his semen tastes. Almost like Clorox at times.""It tasted quite salty.""I cannot compare the taste to anything else I have tasted because its flavor is unique. I can compare its taste to the smell of Clorox bleach. Semen tastes like bleach smells!""It has different tastes for different people ranging from rotten eggs and dirty socks to a slimy/salty taste.""Semen had a taste of its own...Sometimes it's more spicy than other times; sometimes it's sweeter. Sometimes it gives me the sensation that I just chewed on a balloon.""Salty. It's a lot like swallowing snot.""Kind of like salty soft snot.""Blah! BITTER taste!""In my experience, the taste of semen seems to vary (at times dramatically) from guy to guy. Some men, bless them, have semen with very little taste whatsoever. Or maybe they just drink a lot of water and it keeps the concentration of salt and minerals and what have you down. The taste I generally expect is salty, but not a pleasant-eating-soft-pretzels-can-I-have-a-dab-of-mustard-with-that salty. Much more of an acidic, at times bitter metallic taste. At its worst, the taste of semen can surprise you like a mouthful of saltwater. One final note: Evidently garlic is a common culprit in distasteful experiences."
Ammonia
Ascorbic Acid
Ash
Calcium
Carbon Dioxide
Chloride
Cholesterol
Citric Acid
Copper
Creatine
Ergothionine
Fructose
Glutathione
Glycerylphosphoryl-choline
Inositol
Lactic Acid
Lipid
Magenesium
Nitrogen, nonprotean
Phosperus ( acid soluble)
Phosphorylcholine
Potassium
Pyruvic Acid
Sodium
Sorbitol
Vitamin B12
Sulfur
Uric Acid
Zinc
What Women Say About Semen
"Ajax cleaner""maybe salty""smells like Ajax, I no longer buy Ajax because of it. Instead I buy Mr. Clean, it's perfumed.""thick Clorox""rancid Elmer's glue""tastes and smells like Brie cheese""It tastes like itself (it's kind of like asking what pepper tastes like).""Indescribable.""It tasted like a thick, globby beer.""I've discovered that although there is a general almond taste to all men -- different men taste a little differently AND depending on how much a man drinks, smokes, and what he's eating -- the semen ranges in bitterness. The less healthy he is the worst his semen tastes. Almost like Clorox at times.""It tasted quite salty.""I cannot compare the taste to anything else I have tasted because its flavor is unique. I can compare its taste to the smell of Clorox bleach. Semen tastes like bleach smells!""It has different tastes for different people ranging from rotten eggs and dirty socks to a slimy/salty taste.""Semen had a taste of its own...Sometimes it's more spicy than other times; sometimes it's sweeter. Sometimes it gives me the sensation that I just chewed on a balloon.""Salty. It's a lot like swallowing snot.""Kind of like salty soft snot.""Blah! BITTER taste!""In my experience, the taste of semen seems to vary (at times dramatically) from guy to guy. Some men, bless them, have semen with very little taste whatsoever. Or maybe they just drink a lot of water and it keeps the concentration of salt and minerals and what have you down. The taste I generally expect is salty, but not a pleasant-eating-soft-pretzels-can-I-have-a-dab-of-mustard-with-that salty. Much more of an acidic, at times bitter metallic taste. At its worst, the taste of semen can surprise you like a mouthful of saltwater. One final note: Evidently garlic is a common culprit in distasteful experiences."
10 Symptoms a Woman Should Not Ignore!
We all know the routine. We work hard. We play hard. We make lists of what has to be done right now. What's not on the list? Taking care of you. Too often we skip a doctor's visit or ignore symptoms because we're just too busy. And that's a big mistake, maybe even a fatal one. Read on to find out the 10 symptoms you shouldn't ignore… You Get Top PriorityMore often than not, it's the smart, educated woman who puts off going to the doctor, even when going to the doctor should be a top priority, says Judy Kinzy, M.D., an internal medicine specialist in Knoxville, Tenn. It's not unusual for a woman to finally come in long after a symptom has persisted. "They read about it and try to figure it out on their own," Kinzy says. "They don't think about possible consequences. Bottom line, they don't really want to have to deal with it." But not dealing with a persistent symptom can be dangerous – and can even lead to a chronic or fatal disease. Women should see a doctor if they experience any of the following symptoms:1. Acute Fatigue Let's face it: Women are used to being tired. Who doesn't have a "to do" list that's book length. Feed cat, take children to park, finish project at work, get mechanic to listen to weird sound in car, learn Photoshop, use up eggplant in fridge, check on Mom and Dad… and on and on and on. Overload leads to fatigue, but when low energy and exhaustion seem out of proportion to your day-to-day activities and continue for more than two weeks, see a doctor. Acute fatigue can be a difficult symptom to diagnose, Kinzy says, but that doesn't mean you should ignore it. It can indicate hypothyroidism, which can be treated with a hormone, or anemia, which is treatable with iron or vitamin B12 shots. More seriously, it can also be a sign of depression, sleep apnea, heart disease or even lung cancer. 2. Rectal BleedingWomen who have had hemorrhoids while pregnant might dismiss rectal bleeding as a sign of a new hemorrhoid and not take it seriously, says Ruth Stewart, M.D., assistant professor at Meharry Medical College and Vanderbilt University. Rectal bleeding can indeed indicate a hemorrhoid, but it can also be a sign of colon or rectal cancer, which is curable if caught early, according to Stewart. If you experience rectal bleeding, you should see a doctor right away. And even if it's just a hemorrhoid, it still needs to be treated.3. Abdominal Bloating and Pain, Change in Bowel HabitsLike rectal bleeding, abdominal bloating and pain or a change in bowel habits can indicate something serious like colon cancer. These symptoms also can be a sign of ovarian cancer, inflammatory bowel syndrome or diverticulitis. Diverticulitis occurs when you have small pouches that bulge outward in your colon (diverticulosis) that get infected. Diverticulitis can be treated with antibiotics, but sometimes requires surgery. If you experience abdominal bloating or a persistent change in bowel habits, such as constipation, make an appointment with your doctor. 4. Pain or Discomfort in Chest"Although heart disease is the number one killer of American women, most women still don't think about heart disease happening to them," Kinzy says. "They'll think they're having acid reflux or that they ate something funny, and they'll just blow the feeling of discomfort off. They'll also argue against having a heart evaluation because they're so sure it's not their heart – and then it ends up being about their heart." The signs of coronary artery disease, which can lead to a heart attack, are typically much more subtle in women than in men. "Angina isn't always obvious in women. It's not the classic 'elephant sitting on my chest' feeling," Stewart says. "Sometimes it's just discomfort or a 'not well' feeling." Women might misdiagnose the discomfort as acid reflux or a "burpy" sensation. One of Stewart's former patients said the feeling was akin to having a balloon inside her chest. She assumed it was acid reflux, took a Maalox and went to work; a few hours later, she came into the hospital having a heart attack. If you're having trouble exerting yourself or have some discomfort or pain in your chest or you're just not feeling right, see a doctor immediately. 5. Heart Palpitations Heart palpitations are often related to stress, but if persistent, they can also be a sign of atrial fibrillation, which is an irregular heartbeat. If you don't seek treatment for atrial fibrillation, you increase your risk of having a stroke, especially if you have other risk factors for heart disease, which include an abdominal girth of more than 35 inches in women, high cholesterol, high blood pressure or if you smoke. 6. Shortness of BreathShortness of breath is yet another symptom of heart disease. But it can also be a sign of other diseases, such as pneumonia, asthma, emphysema, chronic bronchitis, lung cancer or even a blood clot. They're all very serious, so if you're having continual or increased problems breathing, make an appointment to be evaluated. 7. Pelvic Pain During IntercourseIt's not normal to have pelvic pain during sex, so pay attention if this symptom occurs. If pelvic pain happens during deep penetration, it could indicate pelvic inflammatory disease (PIV), endometriosis, an ovarian cyst or cervixitis, which is an infection of the cervix. Pelvic pain upon entry can mean a vaginal infection or a hormone deficiency. If you do experience pelvic pain during intercourse, don't shrug it off. Go to the doctor. An infection that goes untreated can lead to infertility. 8. Change in the Appearance of a MoleMelanoma (skin cancer) is often linked to a change in moles, so check your moles regularly for any difference in their appearance. Follow the ABCD method recommended by the Skin Cancer Foundation and the American Academy of Dermatology to help detect possible problems. If the mole is A, asymmetrical; B, has uneven borders; C, has changed in color; or D, changed in diameter, see a dermatologist immediately. Any changes in your skin, such as a growth or a sore that won't heal, are also potential indicators of melanoma.9. Breast LumpsExamine your breasts monthly to detect any new masses or lumps and have a yearly breast exam. It might sound funny, but you should be able to read your breasts like a map. That way, you'll be able to recognize an unusual mass or lump and have it evaluated right away. Potentially cancerous lumps usually feel like small stones or rocks in your breast, Kinzy says. Non-cancerous lumps are typically more tender and change in response to your menstrual cycle. But this is not always the case, so check with your doctor if any new lump appears.10. Swelling in Legs or Persistent Pain in Joints If you notice swelling in one or both legs, particularly after you've been traveling in a car or airplane, you should seek the advice of a doctor. Swelling in one leg can mean a blood clot, while swelling in both legs can be a sign of kidney or liver disease. Pain in joints that doesn't go away could mean something more serious than arthritis, such as lupus or rheumatoid arthritis, which may require steroid treatment.
5 Myths of Anal Sex
Anal Sex is a subject I am very passionate about. I feel its so very important for everyone to learn how to understand anal sex as well as to be educated on HOW to have anal sex. It's really not "common sense". If you find this information useful, book a party and learn a whole lot more !
Of all sexual acts, anal sex is the most misunderstood. Despite the fact that one out of every four women has engaged in anal sex, the practice remains taboo. Many women are reluctant to experiment with anal sex because of the many myths and misconceptions that surround the practice.But once you learn the right techniques, it's easy to see why anal sex can be so enjoyable. The anus contains a vast supply of nerves, and is one of our most sensitive erogenous zones. Stroking, massaging, and otherwise stimulating the anus can be intensely pleasurable. In fact, some women are able to orgasm from anal stimulation alone. Here you'll find answers to the most common concerns about anal pleasures:1. The anus is dirty.Early in our childhood, we are taught that the anus is dirty and should not be touched. Thorough hand washing after accidentally touching this area is stressed. You may also have heard similar sentiments voiced about your vulva and vagina, but of course stimulation of these body parts can certainly provide a multitude of pleasurable sensations.With routine daily hygiene, the anus is as clean as other parts of your body. It does contain its own natural bacteria, though, and to avoid infections, you must never move anything from your anus to your vagina.
2. Anal sex is painful.Anal sex should not be painful. If it hurts, you are doing something wrong. If you learn the proper techniques prior to experimenting, you may find it enjoyable.The keys to pleasurable anal sex are relaxation, lubrication and education. The anus is a tube that is one and a half inches long and surrounded by two rings of muscle. One ring, the external sphincter, is under your control. The other, the internal sphincter, will automatically tighten whenever something is pushed into your anus. Relaxing the external sphincter will make anal sex easier and more pleasurable. Your anus does not produce its own natural lubrication, so use lots of water-based lubricants to further increase your pleasure.3. Anal sex is harmful and unhealthy.Many women fear that anal sex will cause hemmorhoids, fissures or tears. Some even fear that they may become incontinent and spend the rest of their lives in adult diapers. Pleasurable anal sex does not cause harm to your anus or rectum. And as long as your partner does not have a sexually transmitted infection, neither semen nor sperm are harmful to your rectum.If you are not sure about the sexually transmitted disease status of your partner, use a lubricated latex or polyurethane condom during anal sex. Avoid condoms with spermicides -- they may cause irritation of the sensitive anal and rectal tissues.4. Anal sex is a perverted, unnatural act.Anal sex has been an accepted sexual practice for centuries. In some cultures, women engage in anal sex with their male partners for sexual pleasure while protecting their virginity. You must decide for yourself what feels natural. If you are uncomfortable with any sexual act, don't do it! You are in charge of what you do sexually.5. Anal sex is enjoyed only by homosexuals.Long considered a purely homosexual act, anal sex is enjoyed by many heterosexual couples as well. Anal sex is simply another option for sexual gratification and is unrelated to your sexual identity.Know your anatomy.To better understand anal sex, you need to understand the anatomy of your anus and rectum. With a mirror, and a good light source, take a look at your anus. As you spread your buttocks, you will notice the opening to your anus. Though it appears small and tight, it is capable of stretching enough to accommodate a finger, toy or any size penis. You will notice that the skin surrounding your anus is dark and wrinkled, and contains hair, sweat and oil-secreting glands. The tube-like anus contains numerous nerves and is exquisitely sensitive to touch and stretching. At the top of the anus is the rectum. The five-inch rectum is not straight, but makes several turns. And because the tissue of the rectum is delicate, sharp objects or unusual force can easily damage it. Though not as sensitive as the anus, some women enjoy the feeling of rectal "fullness" that is created during anal sex play.
Of all sexual acts, anal sex is the most misunderstood. Despite the fact that one out of every four women has engaged in anal sex, the practice remains taboo. Many women are reluctant to experiment with anal sex because of the many myths and misconceptions that surround the practice.But once you learn the right techniques, it's easy to see why anal sex can be so enjoyable. The anus contains a vast supply of nerves, and is one of our most sensitive erogenous zones. Stroking, massaging, and otherwise stimulating the anus can be intensely pleasurable. In fact, some women are able to orgasm from anal stimulation alone. Here you'll find answers to the most common concerns about anal pleasures:1. The anus is dirty.Early in our childhood, we are taught that the anus is dirty and should not be touched. Thorough hand washing after accidentally touching this area is stressed. You may also have heard similar sentiments voiced about your vulva and vagina, but of course stimulation of these body parts can certainly provide a multitude of pleasurable sensations.With routine daily hygiene, the anus is as clean as other parts of your body. It does contain its own natural bacteria, though, and to avoid infections, you must never move anything from your anus to your vagina.
2. Anal sex is painful.Anal sex should not be painful. If it hurts, you are doing something wrong. If you learn the proper techniques prior to experimenting, you may find it enjoyable.The keys to pleasurable anal sex are relaxation, lubrication and education. The anus is a tube that is one and a half inches long and surrounded by two rings of muscle. One ring, the external sphincter, is under your control. The other, the internal sphincter, will automatically tighten whenever something is pushed into your anus. Relaxing the external sphincter will make anal sex easier and more pleasurable. Your anus does not produce its own natural lubrication, so use lots of water-based lubricants to further increase your pleasure.3. Anal sex is harmful and unhealthy.Many women fear that anal sex will cause hemmorhoids, fissures or tears. Some even fear that they may become incontinent and spend the rest of their lives in adult diapers. Pleasurable anal sex does not cause harm to your anus or rectum. And as long as your partner does not have a sexually transmitted infection, neither semen nor sperm are harmful to your rectum.If you are not sure about the sexually transmitted disease status of your partner, use a lubricated latex or polyurethane condom during anal sex. Avoid condoms with spermicides -- they may cause irritation of the sensitive anal and rectal tissues.4. Anal sex is a perverted, unnatural act.Anal sex has been an accepted sexual practice for centuries. In some cultures, women engage in anal sex with their male partners for sexual pleasure while protecting their virginity. You must decide for yourself what feels natural. If you are uncomfortable with any sexual act, don't do it! You are in charge of what you do sexually.5. Anal sex is enjoyed only by homosexuals.Long considered a purely homosexual act, anal sex is enjoyed by many heterosexual couples as well. Anal sex is simply another option for sexual gratification and is unrelated to your sexual identity.Know your anatomy.To better understand anal sex, you need to understand the anatomy of your anus and rectum. With a mirror, and a good light source, take a look at your anus. As you spread your buttocks, you will notice the opening to your anus. Though it appears small and tight, it is capable of stretching enough to accommodate a finger, toy or any size penis. You will notice that the skin surrounding your anus is dark and wrinkled, and contains hair, sweat and oil-secreting glands. The tube-like anus contains numerous nerves and is exquisitely sensitive to touch and stretching. At the top of the anus is the rectum. The five-inch rectum is not straight, but makes several turns. And because the tissue of the rectum is delicate, sharp objects or unusual force can easily damage it. Though not as sensitive as the anus, some women enjoy the feeling of rectal "fullness" that is created during anal sex play.
I AM BACK
Things have been quite hectic and i took on way to much ( as usual) which caused the blog to be neglected.
However, I have now made a permanent schedule which includes my blog time. I am really excited about the changes I have made for the new year and looking forward to making 2009 a BLAST!
Stay tuned for educating, funny, and of course opinionated blogs! :)
XOXO
Danielle
However, I have now made a permanent schedule which includes my blog time. I am really excited about the changes I have made for the new year and looking forward to making 2009 a BLAST!
Stay tuned for educating, funny, and of course opinionated blogs! :)
XOXO
Danielle
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