My name is Danielle Cotton. I am an Independent Business Associate with For Your Pleasure, and a Managing Regional Director for the Sweet Cherry Pies Team! I have been in the business almost 5 years and I LOVE my job!~ Sex Toy Parties, Pleasure Parties, Fun Parties, Adult Parties, Romance Parties, whatever you want to name them….. I do them! ~You will find me doing parties in Pennsylvania areas such at Pottsville, Tamaqua, Reading, Allentown, Harrisburg, Hamburg, Pine Grove, Schuylkill Haven, Lehighton, Hazleton, Scranton, Wilkes-Barre and more! If you are in Berks, Schuylkill, Luzerne, Carbon, Lehigh, Monroe, Columbia, Lackawanna, Or Lebanon Counties we have someone to cover your PA Romance Party!My goal is to empower women at every stage of life. Whether through our products, in home demonstrations or our business opportunity. Women across America and all over the world are sharing their stories of success.I educate women and men to make a change, discover new tools to develop their intimate relationships while at the same time unearthing themselves professionally.Communication, confidence, fulfillment from the bedroom to the boardroom. For Your Pleasure offers all the tools needed to achieve it all!My in home demonstrations are for women and men 18 years or older. All ordering is done individually and confidentially. I allow my customers to seek solutions discreetly.Stop dreaming about the good life and start living your fantasies!Become A For Your Pleasure ConsultantWANTED! I am always looking for smart, creative and enthusiastic women to join my team is the US, Canada or Military Based Areas worldwide! Be your own boss, work your own hours, earn as much or as little as you want!Making great money is so very easy when you LOVE what you do! This is not a way to get rich quick. This is a way to supplement your income or turn it into a full time income. It takes time, patience and dedication to build a business in direct sales.The average party earns a consultant $250.00 in pocket. This is not a guaranteed pay, just an average. You could earn less or more based on each party.
Short On Cash? Have an Open For Business Show!An Open For Business Show (OFB) is For Your Pleasure's (FYP) way of helping out new consultants. Buying a kit is a large investment and we understand that times can be tough. An OFB allows new consultants to earn a kit for a much smaller investment than purchasing a kit. Here's how it works:You would schedule a show in your home with a local FYP Representative. That Representative would come to your home and give a full demonstration, letting your friends and family know that the more they buy, the larger the kit you will receive! Show sales must be at least $300 to qualify as an OFB. Note: You can do a 'catalog' OFB if there is not a local FYP rep. Please ask me how!
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Join For Your Pleasure!
Become A For Your Pleasure Consultant
WANTED! I am always looking for smart, creative and enthusiastic women to join my team is the US, Canada or Military Based Areas worldwide! Be your own boss, work your own hours, earn as much or as little as you want!
Making great money is so very easy when you LOVE what you do! This is not a way to get rich quick. This is a way to supplement your income or turn it into a full time income. It takes time, patience and dedication to build a business in direct sales.
The average party earns a consultant $250.00 in pocket. This is not a guaranteed pay, just an average. You could earn less or more based on each party.
All New Reps purchasing a business kit will start at 40% Base Commission
You will receive BONUS CASH FOR QUALIFIED PERSONAL SALES
$7000+ 10% ($700+)
$6000 - $6999 9% ($540+)
$5000 - $5999 8% ($400+)
$4000 - $4999 7% ($280+)
$3000 - $3999 6% ($180+)
$2000 - $2999 5% ($100+)
Short On Cash? Have an Open For Business Show!
An Open For Business Show (OFB) is For Your Pleasure's (FYP) way of helping out new consultants. Buying a kit is a large investment and we understand that times can be tough. An OFB allows new consultants to earn a kit for a much smaller investment than purchasing a kit. Here's how it works:
You would schedule a show in your home with a local FYP Representative. That Representative would come to your home and give a full demonstration, letting your friends and family know that the more they buy, the larger the kit you will receive! Show sales must be at least $300 to qualify as an OFB. Note: You can do a 'catalog' OFB if there is not a local FYP rep. Please ask me how!
WANTED! I am always looking for smart, creative and enthusiastic women to join my team is the US, Canada or Military Based Areas worldwide! Be your own boss, work your own hours, earn as much or as little as you want!
Making great money is so very easy when you LOVE what you do! This is not a way to get rich quick. This is a way to supplement your income or turn it into a full time income. It takes time, patience and dedication to build a business in direct sales.
The average party earns a consultant $250.00 in pocket. This is not a guaranteed pay, just an average. You could earn less or more based on each party.
All New Reps purchasing a business kit will start at 40% Base Commission
You will receive BONUS CASH FOR QUALIFIED PERSONAL SALES
$7000+ 10% ($700+)
$6000 - $6999 9% ($540+)
$5000 - $5999 8% ($400+)
$4000 - $4999 7% ($280+)
$3000 - $3999 6% ($180+)
$2000 - $2999 5% ($100+)
Short On Cash? Have an Open For Business Show!
An Open For Business Show (OFB) is For Your Pleasure's (FYP) way of helping out new consultants. Buying a kit is a large investment and we understand that times can be tough. An OFB allows new consultants to earn a kit for a much smaller investment than purchasing a kit. Here's how it works:
You would schedule a show in your home with a local FYP Representative. That Representative would come to your home and give a full demonstration, letting your friends and family know that the more they buy, the larger the kit you will receive! Show sales must be at least $300 to qualify as an OFB. Note: You can do a 'catalog' OFB if there is not a local FYP rep. Please ask me how!
Monday, September 15, 2008
FOR YOUR PLEASURE- DANIELLE COTTON- PA ROMANCE PARTIES
KEEP A LOOK OUT FOR MY NEW AD COMING OUT IN SCHUYLKILL AND BERKS COUNTY- CLIPPER MAGAZINE- FOR COUPONS!
PARTY WITH THE BEST- FOR YOUR PLEASURE- ROMANCE PARTIES BY DANIELLE.
DANIELLE COTTON
MANAGING REGIONAL DIRECTOR
SWEET CHERRY PIES
570 943 2545
WWW.PAROMANCEPARTIES.COM
PARTY WITH THE BEST- FOR YOUR PLEASURE- ROMANCE PARTIES BY DANIELLE.
DANIELLE COTTON
MANAGING REGIONAL DIRECTOR
SWEET CHERRY PIES
570 943 2545
WWW.PAROMANCEPARTIES.COM
Monday, September 8, 2008
Women: Increase Your Libido
What Can A Woman Do To Increase Her Libido
Libido/Sex Drive vs. Sexual Arousal..
There's a large difference between sexual desire and physical arousal: Desire (or libido) refers to your interest in sex, while arousal relates to your body's physical response, such as vaginal lubrication or clitoral erection. There can be a relationship between a woman's libido and sexual arousal as those women with a greater libido often find it easier to get aroused. The opposite is also true with those women with a lower libido finding it much harder to get aroused. The whole idea then is to increase the sex drive and thus your body will respond by being aroused much easier.
~ Below are reasons that may lower sex drive and suggest ways that may help you boost you libido.
1. Situation and Lifestyle
The older we women get the more responsibilities that we have to handle. When we were younger most of us had higher sex drives that can take as huge fall when we get older. The time between work, kids, friendships, hobbies and homemaking doesn't leave much time for sex. Then when you find you have a litlle spare time often the last things you feel is sexual or in need of any sexual contact; women often just want to read a good book, watch some TV or catch up on a little sleep. It not that us ladies don't want to have sex it has just some how become a low priority.
Ladies we must all remember that sex is a very important part of any adult relationship. It may mean you have to be a little practical and schedule sex into the calendar. This may sound a little funny but if that is the only way to make sure that you have a chance for lovemaking then it must be done.
Assign one or two nights a week when you spend quality romantic time with oyur partner. It time to kick things up a notch: For example take turns bringing something new into the bedroom. such as sex toy, illustrated book, video ir technique. The idea about scheduling tie together is so that you're making a commitment and also allows you to get a mind set of what is going to happen. It gives you mind and body time to prepare and will help find it helps you when sexual arousal enters the equation as you will be more ready for it then coming in cold.
2. Mindset – Anxiety, Stress and Fear
Sex is the last ting on a woman's mind when she is stressed, anxious or has some fears. It could be work related, a relationship issue, family or money problems and they can really lower drastically a woman's libido.
How can any girl feel sexy when she has to worry about mortgage repayments. Fear and anxiety associated with sex itself can also cause problems. In the modern world there are fears of STD's or of getting pregnant, they all can affect the libido and lower he chances of having a rewarding sexual experience. The way to conquer stress, fear and anxiety is to firstly ensure that the body is healthy. It is up to you to look after you body by eating right, drinking plenty of water, taking regular exercise or even practicing relaxation techniques such as yoga or meditation.
Listen girls, it may seem like hard work but if you are not doing it for your health then do it for your sex lives. The next step is to strengthen the mind by doing things you are good for you such as reading, doing a crossword, talking to friends, kids and your partner and writing in a journal. If you have a healthy body and mind you will become much more capable to deal with the problems in the bedroom.
If you've tried these methods and still feel that anxiety and fear are detrimental your libido, it may be time to seek qualified help. If you are secure with the thought, attempt to talk to a sex therapist. Otherwise a psychologist, life coach or marriage counsellor as they can help you feel better and enjoy sex more.
3. Routine and Boredom
It is easy to get stuck in a groove and familiarity can be a big libido killer. Many women's ideal is to be in a monogamous relationship but after 20 years it is perfectly normal to be bored or uninspired by your partner. By this time you have tried most things and have ruled out or forgotten about anything you haven't tried. This can also apply to couples who have been dating for less than six months as they too can get into a sexual rut after the first flush of puppy love has gone away. It can end up with you using the missionary position every time you get it on like on a Monday, Wednesday and Saturday night. It is fine but everyone needs a bit of variety and spontaneity in their lives.
It is time now to get back to basics and to those sexual routes. Try to approach sex as a brand new experience and forget about everything that you like and don't like. Approach you partner and talk about what you want to try in bed. It might be that you just need to introduce something new to the bedroom. There are many ways to re-invigorate your sex life; buy a sex toy and use with your mate, watch sexy videos and try to recreate the scene, read or look through some illustrated sex guides. There maybe some initial embarrassment or unease with your new experiences together, but if you can keep an open mind you will soon find that your new found experiences lead to much more fun and satisfaction.
4. Relationship Issues
If there is any ill feeling towards a partner it has to be addressed. If an issue or conflict is left unresolved it will lead to a dampening of desire as can secrets or if you are emotionally upset for some reason. When you are carrying negative feelings about a partner, your level of attraction for that person can wane dramatically an even in some severe cases never return. It can be as simple as a lack of appropriate hygiene, or something more complex, such as infidelity; whatever the case issues have to be addressed and dealt with before you can feel sexual again towards your partner.
Communication is the key to a good relationship. If you don't talk to your partner, resentment will grow with you partner and eventually result in an all out conflict. If talking to one another doesn't work then maybe it means trying a counsellor or therapist to move things in a positive direction. If that doesn't work then maybe it is time to see a sex therapist as there maybe problems that are deep rooted that even you are not aware of. I am afraid to say though if all else fails then it may just mean that a relationship has run its course and it is time to say goodbye. It maybe a sad moment but sex is an important part of your life and a relationship and you must enjoy it.
5. Body Complex
No one is ever one hundred percent satisfied with their own body as I have covered in other parts of my website. It maybe those extra large love-handles or those bingo wings or maybe even an issue with your small breasts. The truth is that to feel positive about sex then you must be happy with your own body. As I have said we all have imperfections (perceived or real) and it time to accept them and live with them. If you can't then you may need to take some further action.
Read my article on how to build your self esteem and improve you body image.
6. Getting Older
Age catches up with us all and does take a toll on our bodies. There is a loss of bone mass, susceptibility to illness, painful joints, grey hair, sagging flesh and the list goes on. Menopause and decreased testosterone (yes in women too) production are the reasons for decrease in libido but fear, anxiety and depression from aging can contribute too.
If you are going through the menopause, it is important that you understand the changes taking place in your own body. It may mean seeking out your doctor about treatment for the physical changes that are taking place and affecting the sex drive. The use of Estrogens in any forms can increase blood flow to the vagina and increase arousal thus leading to increased desire. Hormone therapy that includes low dose androgens has been shown to be particularly effective at increasing low libido. There may even be something as easy as the use of lubricants to get an immediate effect if you are experiencing vaginal dryness.
7. Sexual Abuse
Those people that have been unfortunate to suffer sexual abuse can later then have a difficult time with physical intimacy. It is a natural reaction and it takes time and understanding for both the mind and boy to deal with these painful experiences, but there is little attention paid to our sexuality. Please if this applies to you know that many people who have suffered sexual assault have gone on to have healthy and full sexual relationships. It takes time, patience, understanding and some counselling. This cannot be rushed and you must take your time and only become intimate when you are ready too! Never ever let anyone pressure you into something you feel uncomfortable about.
8. Medication
It is widely known that the effect of birth control pills (also when combined with oral contraceptives) leads to a lowered libido. The decreased androgen production or lowered testosterone levels can cause women to experience a lower libido and less vaginal lubrication.
There are other medications that also dampen desire such as tranquilisers, high blood pressure pills and mood stabilizer amongst many. It must also be noted that even mediation that isn't anyway connected to sexual; arousal can have an adverse affect on sexual desire. When talking to your doctor about any new medication and finding that it may alter your libido it might be best to ask if there maybe a viable alternative.
Depression seems to be a part of modern life. If you are feeling down and cannot shake the feeling it may mean you have depression. If you feel this way then it maybe time to see you doctor. Depression will make many people listless, drowsy, sad, angry, upset and very emotional. Depression will have a very noticeable effect on libido. It is known that as many as seventy five percent of people with depression also suffer a lowered sex drive.
The very drugs that are used to treat depression (MAOI's, SSRI's and tricyclics) can also lead to sexual dysfunction, such as a delay in orgasm and lead to an adverse affect on the level of sexual desire.
There have been changes in the last few years that have given hope to people in this situation. There are drugs such as Viagra(r) with antidepressants. Then there may be the use of herbal remedies such a Ginkgo Bilboa, which is thought to help with lack of desire related to taking Paxil or other antidepressants. The there may also be Wellbutrin that has been shown to combat reduced sexual desire.
Please, though whatever you decide or look into always consult you doctor before any changing of medication or stopping your medications.
9. Medical Problems
There are many numbers of medical disorders that can lower libido such as a thyroid problem or hormone deficiency (especially in older people). A metabolic disorder; anything that adversely affects you metabolism (including an eating disorder, accident, trauma or illness) will obviously cause a lowered libido; it is also true to note that one in five American women have hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD), more comely know as a low sex drive. If you have ruled out all other reasons to why you have a low sex drive then consult you doctor. You may have a readily curable medical condition.
Conclusion
There isn't such a thing as a normal libido we are all different and have different sex drives. If you feel frustrated by lack of sexual appetite, take it easy. . Your personal sense of normality is defined by how you feel about your sexuality and whether or not you're happy with how you are expressing it. If you are comfortable about your sexuality then congratulations; if however you feel that you may need a gentle push; then explore the remedies suggested here. There is though no miracle cure some of the suggestions here have worked for other people but may not work for you. It may just take time and patience. It may mean just going solo for a while with a sex toy or eating a piece of chocolate. Hey girls chocolates is an aphrodisiac after all!
Author Holy Franklin.
Libido/Sex Drive vs. Sexual Arousal..
There's a large difference between sexual desire and physical arousal: Desire (or libido) refers to your interest in sex, while arousal relates to your body's physical response, such as vaginal lubrication or clitoral erection. There can be a relationship between a woman's libido and sexual arousal as those women with a greater libido often find it easier to get aroused. The opposite is also true with those women with a lower libido finding it much harder to get aroused. The whole idea then is to increase the sex drive and thus your body will respond by being aroused much easier.
~ Below are reasons that may lower sex drive and suggest ways that may help you boost you libido.
1. Situation and Lifestyle
The older we women get the more responsibilities that we have to handle. When we were younger most of us had higher sex drives that can take as huge fall when we get older. The time between work, kids, friendships, hobbies and homemaking doesn't leave much time for sex. Then when you find you have a litlle spare time often the last things you feel is sexual or in need of any sexual contact; women often just want to read a good book, watch some TV or catch up on a little sleep. It not that us ladies don't want to have sex it has just some how become a low priority.
Ladies we must all remember that sex is a very important part of any adult relationship. It may mean you have to be a little practical and schedule sex into the calendar. This may sound a little funny but if that is the only way to make sure that you have a chance for lovemaking then it must be done.
Assign one or two nights a week when you spend quality romantic time with oyur partner. It time to kick things up a notch: For example take turns bringing something new into the bedroom. such as sex toy, illustrated book, video ir technique. The idea about scheduling tie together is so that you're making a commitment and also allows you to get a mind set of what is going to happen. It gives you mind and body time to prepare and will help find it helps you when sexual arousal enters the equation as you will be more ready for it then coming in cold.
2. Mindset – Anxiety, Stress and Fear
Sex is the last ting on a woman's mind when she is stressed, anxious or has some fears. It could be work related, a relationship issue, family or money problems and they can really lower drastically a woman's libido.
How can any girl feel sexy when she has to worry about mortgage repayments. Fear and anxiety associated with sex itself can also cause problems. In the modern world there are fears of STD's or of getting pregnant, they all can affect the libido and lower he chances of having a rewarding sexual experience. The way to conquer stress, fear and anxiety is to firstly ensure that the body is healthy. It is up to you to look after you body by eating right, drinking plenty of water, taking regular exercise or even practicing relaxation techniques such as yoga or meditation.
Listen girls, it may seem like hard work but if you are not doing it for your health then do it for your sex lives. The next step is to strengthen the mind by doing things you are good for you such as reading, doing a crossword, talking to friends, kids and your partner and writing in a journal. If you have a healthy body and mind you will become much more capable to deal with the problems in the bedroom.
If you've tried these methods and still feel that anxiety and fear are detrimental your libido, it may be time to seek qualified help. If you are secure with the thought, attempt to talk to a sex therapist. Otherwise a psychologist, life coach or marriage counsellor as they can help you feel better and enjoy sex more.
3. Routine and Boredom
It is easy to get stuck in a groove and familiarity can be a big libido killer. Many women's ideal is to be in a monogamous relationship but after 20 years it is perfectly normal to be bored or uninspired by your partner. By this time you have tried most things and have ruled out or forgotten about anything you haven't tried. This can also apply to couples who have been dating for less than six months as they too can get into a sexual rut after the first flush of puppy love has gone away. It can end up with you using the missionary position every time you get it on like on a Monday, Wednesday and Saturday night. It is fine but everyone needs a bit of variety and spontaneity in their lives.
It is time now to get back to basics and to those sexual routes. Try to approach sex as a brand new experience and forget about everything that you like and don't like. Approach you partner and talk about what you want to try in bed. It might be that you just need to introduce something new to the bedroom. There are many ways to re-invigorate your sex life; buy a sex toy and use with your mate, watch sexy videos and try to recreate the scene, read or look through some illustrated sex guides. There maybe some initial embarrassment or unease with your new experiences together, but if you can keep an open mind you will soon find that your new found experiences lead to much more fun and satisfaction.
4. Relationship Issues
If there is any ill feeling towards a partner it has to be addressed. If an issue or conflict is left unresolved it will lead to a dampening of desire as can secrets or if you are emotionally upset for some reason. When you are carrying negative feelings about a partner, your level of attraction for that person can wane dramatically an even in some severe cases never return. It can be as simple as a lack of appropriate hygiene, or something more complex, such as infidelity; whatever the case issues have to be addressed and dealt with before you can feel sexual again towards your partner.
Communication is the key to a good relationship. If you don't talk to your partner, resentment will grow with you partner and eventually result in an all out conflict. If talking to one another doesn't work then maybe it means trying a counsellor or therapist to move things in a positive direction. If that doesn't work then maybe it is time to see a sex therapist as there maybe problems that are deep rooted that even you are not aware of. I am afraid to say though if all else fails then it may just mean that a relationship has run its course and it is time to say goodbye. It maybe a sad moment but sex is an important part of your life and a relationship and you must enjoy it.
5. Body Complex
No one is ever one hundred percent satisfied with their own body as I have covered in other parts of my website. It maybe those extra large love-handles or those bingo wings or maybe even an issue with your small breasts. The truth is that to feel positive about sex then you must be happy with your own body. As I have said we all have imperfections (perceived or real) and it time to accept them and live with them. If you can't then you may need to take some further action.
Read my article on how to build your self esteem and improve you body image.
6. Getting Older
Age catches up with us all and does take a toll on our bodies. There is a loss of bone mass, susceptibility to illness, painful joints, grey hair, sagging flesh and the list goes on. Menopause and decreased testosterone (yes in women too) production are the reasons for decrease in libido but fear, anxiety and depression from aging can contribute too.
If you are going through the menopause, it is important that you understand the changes taking place in your own body. It may mean seeking out your doctor about treatment for the physical changes that are taking place and affecting the sex drive. The use of Estrogens in any forms can increase blood flow to the vagina and increase arousal thus leading to increased desire. Hormone therapy that includes low dose androgens has been shown to be particularly effective at increasing low libido. There may even be something as easy as the use of lubricants to get an immediate effect if you are experiencing vaginal dryness.
7. Sexual Abuse
Those people that have been unfortunate to suffer sexual abuse can later then have a difficult time with physical intimacy. It is a natural reaction and it takes time and understanding for both the mind and boy to deal with these painful experiences, but there is little attention paid to our sexuality. Please if this applies to you know that many people who have suffered sexual assault have gone on to have healthy and full sexual relationships. It takes time, patience, understanding and some counselling. This cannot be rushed and you must take your time and only become intimate when you are ready too! Never ever let anyone pressure you into something you feel uncomfortable about.
8. Medication
It is widely known that the effect of birth control pills (also when combined with oral contraceptives) leads to a lowered libido. The decreased androgen production or lowered testosterone levels can cause women to experience a lower libido and less vaginal lubrication.
There are other medications that also dampen desire such as tranquilisers, high blood pressure pills and mood stabilizer amongst many. It must also be noted that even mediation that isn't anyway connected to sexual; arousal can have an adverse affect on sexual desire. When talking to your doctor about any new medication and finding that it may alter your libido it might be best to ask if there maybe a viable alternative.
Depression seems to be a part of modern life. If you are feeling down and cannot shake the feeling it may mean you have depression. If you feel this way then it maybe time to see you doctor. Depression will make many people listless, drowsy, sad, angry, upset and very emotional. Depression will have a very noticeable effect on libido. It is known that as many as seventy five percent of people with depression also suffer a lowered sex drive.
The very drugs that are used to treat depression (MAOI's, SSRI's and tricyclics) can also lead to sexual dysfunction, such as a delay in orgasm and lead to an adverse affect on the level of sexual desire.
There have been changes in the last few years that have given hope to people in this situation. There are drugs such as Viagra(r) with antidepressants. Then there may be the use of herbal remedies such a Ginkgo Bilboa, which is thought to help with lack of desire related to taking Paxil or other antidepressants. The there may also be Wellbutrin that has been shown to combat reduced sexual desire.
Please, though whatever you decide or look into always consult you doctor before any changing of medication or stopping your medications.
9. Medical Problems
There are many numbers of medical disorders that can lower libido such as a thyroid problem or hormone deficiency (especially in older people). A metabolic disorder; anything that adversely affects you metabolism (including an eating disorder, accident, trauma or illness) will obviously cause a lowered libido; it is also true to note that one in five American women have hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD), more comely know as a low sex drive. If you have ruled out all other reasons to why you have a low sex drive then consult you doctor. You may have a readily curable medical condition.
Conclusion
There isn't such a thing as a normal libido we are all different and have different sex drives. If you feel frustrated by lack of sexual appetite, take it easy. . Your personal sense of normality is defined by how you feel about your sexuality and whether or not you're happy with how you are expressing it. If you are comfortable about your sexuality then congratulations; if however you feel that you may need a gentle push; then explore the remedies suggested here. There is though no miracle cure some of the suggestions here have worked for other people but may not work for you. It may just take time and patience. It may mean just going solo for a while with a sex toy or eating a piece of chocolate. Hey girls chocolates is an aphrodisiac after all!
Author Holy Franklin.
Women: Increase Your Libido
What Can A Woman Do To Increase Her Libido
Libido/Sex Drive vs. Sexual Arousal..
There's a large difference between sexual desire and physical arousal: Desire (or libido) refers to your interest in sex, while arousal relates to your body's physical response, such as vaginal lubrication or clitoral erection. There can be a relationship between a woman's libido and sexual arousal as those women with a greater libido often find it easier to get aroused. The opposite is also true with those women with a lower libido finding it much harder to get aroused. The whole idea then is to increase the sex drive and thus your body will respond by being aroused much easier.
~ Below are reasons that may lower sex drive and suggest ways that may help you boost you libido.
1. Situation and Lifestyle
The older we women get the more responsibilities that we have to handle. When we were younger most of us had higher sex drives that can take as huge fall when we get older. The time between work, kids, friendships, hobbies and homemaking doesn't leave much time for sex. Then when you find you have a litlle spare time often the last things you feel is sexual or in need of any sexual contact; women often just want to read a good book, watch some TV or catch up on a little sleep. It not that us ladies don't want to have sex it has just some how become a low priority.
Ladies we must all remember that sex is a very important part of any adult relationship. It may mean you have to be a little practical and schedule sex into the calendar. This may sound a little funny but if that is the only way to make sure that you have a chance for lovemaking then it must be done.
Assign one or two nights a week when you spend quality romantic time with oyur partner. It time to kick things up a notch: For example take turns bringing something new into the bedroom. such as sex toy, illustrated book, video ir technique. The idea about scheduling tie together is so that you're making a commitment and also allows you to get a mind set of what is going to happen. It gives you mind and body time to prepare and will help find it helps you when sexual arousal enters the equation as you will be more ready for it then coming in cold.
2. Mindset – Anxiety, Stress and Fear
Sex is the last ting on a woman's mind when she is stressed, anxious or has some fears. It could be work related, a relationship issue, family or money problems and they can really lower drastically a woman's libido.
How can any girl feel sexy when she has to worry about mortgage repayments. Fear and anxiety associated with sex itself can also cause problems. In the modern world there are fears of STD's or of getting pregnant, they all can affect the libido and lower he chances of having a rewarding sexual experience. The way to conquer stress, fear and anxiety is to firstly ensure that the body is healthy. It is up to you to look after you body by eating right, drinking plenty of water, taking regular exercise or even practicing relaxation techniques such as yoga or meditation.
Listen girls, it may seem like hard work but if you are not doing it for your health then do it for your sex lives. The next step is to strengthen the mind by doing things you are good for you such as reading, doing a crossword, talking to friends, kids and your partner and writing in a journal. If you have a healthy body and mind you will become much more capable to deal with the problems in the bedroom.
If you've tried these methods and still feel that anxiety and fear are detrimental your libido, it may be time to seek qualified help. If you are secure with the thought, attempt to talk to a sex therapist. Otherwise a psychologist, life coach or marriage counsellor as they can help you feel better and enjoy sex more.
3. Routine and Boredom
It is easy to get stuck in a groove and familiarity can be a big libido killer. Many women's ideal is to be in a monogamous relationship but after 20 years it is perfectly normal to be bored or uninspired by your partner. By this time you have tried most things and have ruled out or forgotten about anything you haven't tried. This can also apply to couples who have been dating for less than six months as they too can get into a sexual rut after the first flush of puppy love has gone away. It can end up with you using the missionary position every time you get it on like on a Monday, Wednesday and Saturday night. It is fine but everyone needs a bit of variety and spontaneity in their lives.
It is time now to get back to basics and to those sexual routes. Try to approach sex as a brand new experience and forget about everything that you like and don't like. Approach you partner and talk about what you want to try in bed. It might be that you just need to introduce something new to the bedroom. There are many ways to re-invigorate your sex life; buy a sex toy and use with your mate, watch sexy videos and try to recreate the scene, read or look through some illustrated sex guides. There maybe some initial embarrassment or unease with your new experiences together, but if you can keep an open mind you will soon find that your new found experiences lead to much more fun and satisfaction.
4. Relationship Issues
If there is any ill feeling towards a partner it has to be addressed. If an issue or conflict is left unresolved it will lead to a dampening of desire as can secrets or if you are emotionally upset for some reason. When you are carrying negative feelings about a partner, your level of attraction for that person can wane dramatically an even in some severe cases never return. It can be as simple as a lack of appropriate hygiene, or something more complex, such as infidelity; whatever the case issues have to be addressed and dealt with before you can feel sexual again towards your partner.
Communication is the key to a good relationship. If you don't talk to your partner, resentment will grow with you partner and eventually result in an all out conflict. If talking to one another doesn't work then maybe it means trying a counsellor or therapist to move things in a positive direction. If that doesn't work then maybe it is time to see a sex therapist as there maybe problems that are deep rooted that even you are not aware of. I am afraid to say though if all else fails then it may just mean that a relationship has run its course and it is time to say goodbye. It maybe a sad moment but sex is an important part of your life and a relationship and you must enjoy it.
5. Body Complex
No one is ever one hundred percent satisfied with their own body as I have covered in other parts of my website. It maybe those extra large love-handles or those bingo wings or maybe even an issue with your small breasts. The truth is that to feel positive about sex then you must be happy with your own body. As I have said we all have imperfections (perceived or real) and it time to accept them and live with them. If you can't then you may need to take some further action.
Read my article on how to build your self esteem and improve you body image.
6. Getting Older
Age catches up with us all and does take a toll on our bodies. There is a loss of bone mass, susceptibility to illness, painful joints, grey hair, sagging flesh and the list goes on. Menopause and decreased testosterone (yes in women too) production are the reasons for decrease in libido but fear, anxiety and depression from aging can contribute too.
If you are going through the menopause, it is important that you understand the changes taking place in your own body. It may mean seeking out your doctor about treatment for the physical changes that are taking place and affecting the sex drive. The use of Estrogens in any forms can increase blood flow to the vagina and increase arousal thus leading to increased desire. Hormone therapy that includes low dose androgens has been shown to be particularly effective at increasing low libido. There may even be something as easy as the use of lubricants to get an immediate effect if you are experiencing vaginal dryness.
7. Sexual Abuse
Those people that have been unfortunate to suffer sexual abuse can later then have a difficult time with physical intimacy. It is a natural reaction and it takes time and understanding for both the mind and boy to deal with these painful experiences, but there is little attention paid to our sexuality. Please if this applies to you know that many people who have suffered sexual assault have gone on to have healthy and full sexual relationships. It takes time, patience, understanding and some counselling. This cannot be rushed and you must take your time and only become intimate when you are ready too! Never ever let anyone pressure you into something you feel uncomfortable about.
8. Medication
It is widely known that the effect of birth control pills (also when combined with oral contraceptives) leads to a lowered libido. The decreased androgen production or lowered testosterone levels can cause women to experience a lower libido and less vaginal lubrication.
There are other medications that also dampen desire such as tranquilisers, high blood pressure pills and mood stabilizer amongst many. It must also be noted that even mediation that isn't anyway connected to sexual; arousal can have an adverse affect on sexual desire. When talking to your doctor about any new medication and finding that it may alter your libido it might be best to ask if there maybe a viable alternative.
Depression seems to be a part of modern life. If you are feeling down and cannot shake the feeling it may mean you have depression. If you feel this way then it maybe time to see you doctor. Depression will make many people listless, drowsy, sad, angry, upset and very emotional. Depression will have a very noticeable effect on libido. It is known that as many as seventy five percent of people with depression also suffer a lowered sex drive.
The very drugs that are used to treat depression (MAOI's, SSRI's and tricyclics) can also lead to sexual dysfunction, such as a delay in orgasm and lead to an adverse affect on the level of sexual desire.
There have been changes in the last few years that have given hope to people in this situation. There are drugs such as Viagra(r) with antidepressants. Then there may be the use of herbal remedies such a Ginkgo Bilboa, which is thought to help with lack of desire related to taking Paxil or other antidepressants. The there may also be Wellbutrin that has been shown to combat reduced sexual desire.
Please, though whatever you decide or look into always consult you doctor before any changing of medication or stopping your medications.
9. Medical Problems
There are many numbers of medical disorders that can lower libido such as a thyroid problem or hormone deficiency (especially in older people). A metabolic disorder; anything that adversely affects you metabolism (including an eating disorder, accident, trauma or illness) will obviously cause a lowered libido; it is also true to note that one in five American women have hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD), more comely know as a low sex drive. If you have ruled out all other reasons to why you have a low sex drive then consult you doctor. You may have a readily curable medical condition.
Conclusion
There isn't such a thing as a normal libido we are all different and have different sex drives. If you feel frustrated by lack of sexual appetite, take it easy. . Your personal sense of normality is defined by how you feel about your sexuality and whether or not you're happy with how you are expressing it. If you are comfortable about your sexuality then congratulations; if however you feel that you may need a gentle push; then explore the remedies suggested here. There is though no miracle cure some of the suggestions here have worked for other people but may not work for you. It may just take time and patience. It may mean just going solo for a while with a sex toy or eating a piece of chocolate. Hey girls chocolates is an aphrodisiac after all!
Author Holy Franklin.
Libido/Sex Drive vs. Sexual Arousal..
There's a large difference between sexual desire and physical arousal: Desire (or libido) refers to your interest in sex, while arousal relates to your body's physical response, such as vaginal lubrication or clitoral erection. There can be a relationship between a woman's libido and sexual arousal as those women with a greater libido often find it easier to get aroused. The opposite is also true with those women with a lower libido finding it much harder to get aroused. The whole idea then is to increase the sex drive and thus your body will respond by being aroused much easier.
~ Below are reasons that may lower sex drive and suggest ways that may help you boost you libido.
1. Situation and Lifestyle
The older we women get the more responsibilities that we have to handle. When we were younger most of us had higher sex drives that can take as huge fall when we get older. The time between work, kids, friendships, hobbies and homemaking doesn't leave much time for sex. Then when you find you have a litlle spare time often the last things you feel is sexual or in need of any sexual contact; women often just want to read a good book, watch some TV or catch up on a little sleep. It not that us ladies don't want to have sex it has just some how become a low priority.
Ladies we must all remember that sex is a very important part of any adult relationship. It may mean you have to be a little practical and schedule sex into the calendar. This may sound a little funny but if that is the only way to make sure that you have a chance for lovemaking then it must be done.
Assign one or two nights a week when you spend quality romantic time with oyur partner. It time to kick things up a notch: For example take turns bringing something new into the bedroom. such as sex toy, illustrated book, video ir technique. The idea about scheduling tie together is so that you're making a commitment and also allows you to get a mind set of what is going to happen. It gives you mind and body time to prepare and will help find it helps you when sexual arousal enters the equation as you will be more ready for it then coming in cold.
2. Mindset – Anxiety, Stress and Fear
Sex is the last ting on a woman's mind when she is stressed, anxious or has some fears. It could be work related, a relationship issue, family or money problems and they can really lower drastically a woman's libido.
How can any girl feel sexy when she has to worry about mortgage repayments. Fear and anxiety associated with sex itself can also cause problems. In the modern world there are fears of STD's or of getting pregnant, they all can affect the libido and lower he chances of having a rewarding sexual experience. The way to conquer stress, fear and anxiety is to firstly ensure that the body is healthy. It is up to you to look after you body by eating right, drinking plenty of water, taking regular exercise or even practicing relaxation techniques such as yoga or meditation.
Listen girls, it may seem like hard work but if you are not doing it for your health then do it for your sex lives. The next step is to strengthen the mind by doing things you are good for you such as reading, doing a crossword, talking to friends, kids and your partner and writing in a journal. If you have a healthy body and mind you will become much more capable to deal with the problems in the bedroom.
If you've tried these methods and still feel that anxiety and fear are detrimental your libido, it may be time to seek qualified help. If you are secure with the thought, attempt to talk to a sex therapist. Otherwise a psychologist, life coach or marriage counsellor as they can help you feel better and enjoy sex more.
3. Routine and Boredom
It is easy to get stuck in a groove and familiarity can be a big libido killer. Many women's ideal is to be in a monogamous relationship but after 20 years it is perfectly normal to be bored or uninspired by your partner. By this time you have tried most things and have ruled out or forgotten about anything you haven't tried. This can also apply to couples who have been dating for less than six months as they too can get into a sexual rut after the first flush of puppy love has gone away. It can end up with you using the missionary position every time you get it on like on a Monday, Wednesday and Saturday night. It is fine but everyone needs a bit of variety and spontaneity in their lives.
It is time now to get back to basics and to those sexual routes. Try to approach sex as a brand new experience and forget about everything that you like and don't like. Approach you partner and talk about what you want to try in bed. It might be that you just need to introduce something new to the bedroom. There are many ways to re-invigorate your sex life; buy a sex toy and use with your mate, watch sexy videos and try to recreate the scene, read or look through some illustrated sex guides. There maybe some initial embarrassment or unease with your new experiences together, but if you can keep an open mind you will soon find that your new found experiences lead to much more fun and satisfaction.
4. Relationship Issues
If there is any ill feeling towards a partner it has to be addressed. If an issue or conflict is left unresolved it will lead to a dampening of desire as can secrets or if you are emotionally upset for some reason. When you are carrying negative feelings about a partner, your level of attraction for that person can wane dramatically an even in some severe cases never return. It can be as simple as a lack of appropriate hygiene, or something more complex, such as infidelity; whatever the case issues have to be addressed and dealt with before you can feel sexual again towards your partner.
Communication is the key to a good relationship. If you don't talk to your partner, resentment will grow with you partner and eventually result in an all out conflict. If talking to one another doesn't work then maybe it means trying a counsellor or therapist to move things in a positive direction. If that doesn't work then maybe it is time to see a sex therapist as there maybe problems that are deep rooted that even you are not aware of. I am afraid to say though if all else fails then it may just mean that a relationship has run its course and it is time to say goodbye. It maybe a sad moment but sex is an important part of your life and a relationship and you must enjoy it.
5. Body Complex
No one is ever one hundred percent satisfied with their own body as I have covered in other parts of my website. It maybe those extra large love-handles or those bingo wings or maybe even an issue with your small breasts. The truth is that to feel positive about sex then you must be happy with your own body. As I have said we all have imperfections (perceived or real) and it time to accept them and live with them. If you can't then you may need to take some further action.
Read my article on how to build your self esteem and improve you body image.
6. Getting Older
Age catches up with us all and does take a toll on our bodies. There is a loss of bone mass, susceptibility to illness, painful joints, grey hair, sagging flesh and the list goes on. Menopause and decreased testosterone (yes in women too) production are the reasons for decrease in libido but fear, anxiety and depression from aging can contribute too.
If you are going through the menopause, it is important that you understand the changes taking place in your own body. It may mean seeking out your doctor about treatment for the physical changes that are taking place and affecting the sex drive. The use of Estrogens in any forms can increase blood flow to the vagina and increase arousal thus leading to increased desire. Hormone therapy that includes low dose androgens has been shown to be particularly effective at increasing low libido. There may even be something as easy as the use of lubricants to get an immediate effect if you are experiencing vaginal dryness.
7. Sexual Abuse
Those people that have been unfortunate to suffer sexual abuse can later then have a difficult time with physical intimacy. It is a natural reaction and it takes time and understanding for both the mind and boy to deal with these painful experiences, but there is little attention paid to our sexuality. Please if this applies to you know that many people who have suffered sexual assault have gone on to have healthy and full sexual relationships. It takes time, patience, understanding and some counselling. This cannot be rushed and you must take your time and only become intimate when you are ready too! Never ever let anyone pressure you into something you feel uncomfortable about.
8. Medication
It is widely known that the effect of birth control pills (also when combined with oral contraceptives) leads to a lowered libido. The decreased androgen production or lowered testosterone levels can cause women to experience a lower libido and less vaginal lubrication.
There are other medications that also dampen desire such as tranquilisers, high blood pressure pills and mood stabilizer amongst many. It must also be noted that even mediation that isn't anyway connected to sexual; arousal can have an adverse affect on sexual desire. When talking to your doctor about any new medication and finding that it may alter your libido it might be best to ask if there maybe a viable alternative.
Depression seems to be a part of modern life. If you are feeling down and cannot shake the feeling it may mean you have depression. If you feel this way then it maybe time to see you doctor. Depression will make many people listless, drowsy, sad, angry, upset and very emotional. Depression will have a very noticeable effect on libido. It is known that as many as seventy five percent of people with depression also suffer a lowered sex drive.
The very drugs that are used to treat depression (MAOI's, SSRI's and tricyclics) can also lead to sexual dysfunction, such as a delay in orgasm and lead to an adverse affect on the level of sexual desire.
There have been changes in the last few years that have given hope to people in this situation. There are drugs such as Viagra(r) with antidepressants. Then there may be the use of herbal remedies such a Ginkgo Bilboa, which is thought to help with lack of desire related to taking Paxil or other antidepressants. The there may also be Wellbutrin that has been shown to combat reduced sexual desire.
Please, though whatever you decide or look into always consult you doctor before any changing of medication or stopping your medications.
9. Medical Problems
There are many numbers of medical disorders that can lower libido such as a thyroid problem or hormone deficiency (especially in older people). A metabolic disorder; anything that adversely affects you metabolism (including an eating disorder, accident, trauma or illness) will obviously cause a lowered libido; it is also true to note that one in five American women have hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD), more comely know as a low sex drive. If you have ruled out all other reasons to why you have a low sex drive then consult you doctor. You may have a readily curable medical condition.
Conclusion
There isn't such a thing as a normal libido we are all different and have different sex drives. If you feel frustrated by lack of sexual appetite, take it easy. . Your personal sense of normality is defined by how you feel about your sexuality and whether or not you're happy with how you are expressing it. If you are comfortable about your sexuality then congratulations; if however you feel that you may need a gentle push; then explore the remedies suggested here. There is though no miracle cure some of the suggestions here have worked for other people but may not work for you. It may just take time and patience. It may mean just going solo for a while with a sex toy or eating a piece of chocolate. Hey girls chocolates is an aphrodisiac after all!
Author Holy Franklin.
My name is Danielle Cotton. I am an Independent Business Associate with For Your Pleasure, and a Managing Regional Director for the Sweet Cherry Pies Team! I have been in the business almost 5 years and I LOVE my job!
~ Sex Toy Parties, Pleasure Parties, Fun Parties, Adult Parties, Romance Parties, whatever you want to name them….. I do them! ~
You will find me doing parties in Pennsylvania areas such at Pottsville, Tamaqua, Reading, Allentown, Harrisburg, Hamburg, Pine Grove, Schuylkill Haven, Lehighton, Hazleton, Scranton, Wilkes-Barre and more! If you are in Berks, Schuylkill, Luzerne, Carbon, Lehigh, Monroe, Columbia, Lackawanna, Or Lebanon Counties we have someone to cover your PA Romance Party!
My goal is to empower women at every stage of life. Whether through our products, in home demonstrations or our business opportunity. Women across America and all over the world are sharing their stories of success.
I educate women and men to make a change, discover new tools to develop their intimate relationships while at the same time unearthing themselves professionally.
Communication, confidence, fulfillment from the bedroom to the boardroom. For Your Pleasure offers all the tools needed to achieve it all!
My in home demonstrations are for women and men 18 years or older. All ordering is done individually and confidentially. I allow my customers to seek solutions discreetly.
Stop dreaming about the good life and start living your fantasies!
Become A For Your Pleasure Consultant
WANTED! I am always looking for smart, creative and enthusiastic women to join my team is the US, Canada or Military Based Areas worldwide! Be your own boss, work your own hours, earn as much or as little as you want!
Making great money is so very easy when you LOVE what you do! This is not a way to get rich quick. This is a way to supplement your income or turn it into a full time income. It takes time, patience and dedication to build a business in direct sales.
The average party earns a consultant $250.00 in pocket. This is not a guaranteed pay, just an average. You could earn less or more based on each party.
All New Reps purchasing a business kit will start at 40% Base Commission
You will receive BONUS CASH FOR QUALIFIED PERSONAL SALES
$7000+ 10% ($700+)
$6000 - $6999 9% ($540+)
$5000 - $5999 8% ($400+)
$4000 - $4999 7% ($280+)
$3000 - $3999 6% ($180+)
$2000 - $2999 5% ($100+)
Short On Cash? Have an Open For Business Show!
An Open For Business Show (OFB) is For Your Pleasure's (FYP) way of helping out new consultants. Buying a kit is a large investment and we understand that times can be tough. An OFB allows new consultants to earn a kit for a much smaller investment than purchasing a kit. Here's how it works:
You would schedule a show in your home with a local FYP Representative. That Representative would come to your home and give a full demonstration, letting your friends and family know that the more they buy, the larger the kit you will receive! Show sales must be at least $300 to qualify as an OFB. Note: You can do a 'catalog' OFB if there is not a local FYP rep. Please ask me how!
~ Sex Toy Parties, Pleasure Parties, Fun Parties, Adult Parties, Romance Parties, whatever you want to name them….. I do them! ~
You will find me doing parties in Pennsylvania areas such at Pottsville, Tamaqua, Reading, Allentown, Harrisburg, Hamburg, Pine Grove, Schuylkill Haven, Lehighton, Hazleton, Scranton, Wilkes-Barre and more! If you are in Berks, Schuylkill, Luzerne, Carbon, Lehigh, Monroe, Columbia, Lackawanna, Or Lebanon Counties we have someone to cover your PA Romance Party!
My goal is to empower women at every stage of life. Whether through our products, in home demonstrations or our business opportunity. Women across America and all over the world are sharing their stories of success.
I educate women and men to make a change, discover new tools to develop their intimate relationships while at the same time unearthing themselves professionally.
Communication, confidence, fulfillment from the bedroom to the boardroom. For Your Pleasure offers all the tools needed to achieve it all!
My in home demonstrations are for women and men 18 years or older. All ordering is done individually and confidentially. I allow my customers to seek solutions discreetly.
Stop dreaming about the good life and start living your fantasies!
Become A For Your Pleasure Consultant
WANTED! I am always looking for smart, creative and enthusiastic women to join my team is the US, Canada or Military Based Areas worldwide! Be your own boss, work your own hours, earn as much or as little as you want!
Making great money is so very easy when you LOVE what you do! This is not a way to get rich quick. This is a way to supplement your income or turn it into a full time income. It takes time, patience and dedication to build a business in direct sales.
The average party earns a consultant $250.00 in pocket. This is not a guaranteed pay, just an average. You could earn less or more based on each party.
All New Reps purchasing a business kit will start at 40% Base Commission
You will receive BONUS CASH FOR QUALIFIED PERSONAL SALES
$7000+ 10% ($700+)
$6000 - $6999 9% ($540+)
$5000 - $5999 8% ($400+)
$4000 - $4999 7% ($280+)
$3000 - $3999 6% ($180+)
$2000 - $2999 5% ($100+)
Short On Cash? Have an Open For Business Show!
An Open For Business Show (OFB) is For Your Pleasure's (FYP) way of helping out new consultants. Buying a kit is a large investment and we understand that times can be tough. An OFB allows new consultants to earn a kit for a much smaller investment than purchasing a kit. Here's how it works:
You would schedule a show in your home with a local FYP Representative. That Representative would come to your home and give a full demonstration, letting your friends and family know that the more they buy, the larger the kit you will receive! Show sales must be at least $300 to qualify as an OFB. Note: You can do a 'catalog' OFB if there is not a local FYP rep. Please ask me how!
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
Online Ordering Now Available
If your interested in making a private order you may do so now at my online store.
www.foryourpleasure.net/paromanceparties
You may also request parties, or Rep information as well.
www.foryourpleasure.net/paromanceparties
You may also request parties, or Rep information as well.
Monday, September 1, 2008
Here's The Money- By Danielle Cotton
Why you make more money with For Your Pleasure compared to other companies!
* I dont have to pay for the hostess credits! The company does! Our reps really do make 40% ( 45% or 50% depending on thier level, I make 50%) of the party sales
* I dont have to run my own credit cards ( or pay a large % per CC)
* I dont have to sort, pack, deliver, or reship! FYP also puts my Rep Labels on my products when they ship them... to help with RE- Orders!
* I do not have to worry about sales tax! The company deals with it!
* We have the cheapest websites and make full commission on orders! We can have online parties right through the websites too! We can also have our OWN websites too!
*No Yearly Renewal Fees!
* No activity requirement! I dont have to sell so much every 1, 3, or 6 months to stay a rep!
* Our bonuses are 5%-10% more a month based on your sales! The more you sell the larger the bonus!
* We earn the same commission on lingerie as we do on everything else!
* We can have Co-ed/Couples/Alternative Lifestyle Parties! No restrictions!
* We offer more! Over 1200 products!
* Our company party sale average is $650 per party.... is yours?
* Our Hostesses earn more, our Customers save more, and our Consultants Earn More! See 2 party examples, and team building example below!
HERE'S THE MONEY
Sally hosts a party with a For Your Pleasure! She has $350 in sales, 10 buying guests, and 2 bookings! Although For Your Pleasure's party average is much higher, we will just use this as a "guide". All customers pay $5.95 for S/H
The Hostess has earned
$35 in Free Credit
$15 Bonus Shopping for Free
1 Hostess Exclusive – 7th Heaven Bullet – Cost to Hostess $14.00 ( she saves $40)
$300 Special- Cost to Hostess $29 (she saves $70)
1 item @ 65% off ( Buying Guests) - Say a $50 Item – Hostess Cost $17.50 ( Hotess Saves $32.50)
1 item @65% off ( 1st Booking) – Say a $50 Item- Hostess Cost $17.50 ( Hostess Saves $32.50)
$35 In Free Shopping ( 2nd Booking)
Total FREE= $85
Total Savings= $175
Hostess Received $ 338.00 worth of product for $78!
Consultant Cost $ 0.00
Consultant Earned $140.00 Cash
Shipping Costs were submitted to the company for them to sort, label product with Rep's contact info, pack and ship to hostess .
Let's Do a Larger Party
$875 in sales, 15 guests, 2 bookings and $200 in outside orders
$875 Party Sales + $200 in outside orders = $1075 in total sales
$100 Free Credit
$50 Bonus Shopping Free
2 Hostess Exclusives -7th Heaven Bullet – Cost to Hostess $14.00 ( she saves $40)
-Ultra Waterproof Rabbit – Cost to Hostess $27.00 (she saves $92)
$300 Hostess Monthly Special- Cost to Hostess $29 (she saves $70)
$500 Hostess Special- Cost to Hostess $42 (she saves $134)
1 item at 70% off ( buying guests) Say $50 Item – Cost to Hostess $15 ( she saves $35)
1 item at 65% off ( 1st booking) Say $50 Item – Cost to hostess $17.50 ( she saves $32.50)
$35 Free Shopping ( 2nd booking)
Total Free $185
Total Savings $ 403.50
Hostess Received $ 733.00 for $103.50
Consultant Cost $0.00
Consultant Earnings $430.00
Shipping Costs were submitted to the company for them to sort, label product with Rep's contact info, pack and ship to hostess .
Team Building Commissions and Bonuses
Suzie has 10 first line recruits who are selling $2,000 a month
Team credited for $20,000 in sales
Suzie is a Managing Regional Director!
She earns 7% on her first line and now earns 50% commissions on all personal sales! Woohoo!
$20,000 x.07 = $1400.00 commission just on her first line
Oh, But wait… she also gets a $500 Mangement Bonus!
Total Monthly Commission Check = $1900.00
That's $500 more a month than a "wholesale" company pays you!
$500x12 = $6,000 extra a year!
Don't forget now, she now earns 50% commissions on all her personal sales forever she can never go down again!
* I dont have to pay for the hostess credits! The company does! Our reps really do make 40% ( 45% or 50% depending on thier level, I make 50%) of the party sales
* I dont have to run my own credit cards ( or pay a large % per CC)
* I dont have to sort, pack, deliver, or reship! FYP also puts my Rep Labels on my products when they ship them... to help with RE- Orders!
* I do not have to worry about sales tax! The company deals with it!
* We have the cheapest websites and make full commission on orders! We can have online parties right through the websites too! We can also have our OWN websites too!
*No Yearly Renewal Fees!
* No activity requirement! I dont have to sell so much every 1, 3, or 6 months to stay a rep!
* Our bonuses are 5%-10% more a month based on your sales! The more you sell the larger the bonus!
* We earn the same commission on lingerie as we do on everything else!
* We can have Co-ed/Couples/Alternative Lifestyle Parties! No restrictions!
* We offer more! Over 1200 products!
* Our company party sale average is $650 per party.... is yours?
* Our Hostesses earn more, our Customers save more, and our Consultants Earn More! See 2 party examples, and team building example below!
HERE'S THE MONEY
Sally hosts a party with a For Your Pleasure! She has $350 in sales, 10 buying guests, and 2 bookings! Although For Your Pleasure's party average is much higher, we will just use this as a "guide". All customers pay $5.95 for S/H
The Hostess has earned
$35 in Free Credit
$15 Bonus Shopping for Free
1 Hostess Exclusive – 7th Heaven Bullet – Cost to Hostess $14.00 ( she saves $40)
$300 Special- Cost to Hostess $29 (she saves $70)
1 item @ 65% off ( Buying Guests) - Say a $50 Item – Hostess Cost $17.50 ( Hotess Saves $32.50)
1 item @65% off ( 1st Booking) – Say a $50 Item- Hostess Cost $17.50 ( Hostess Saves $32.50)
$35 In Free Shopping ( 2nd Booking)
Total FREE= $85
Total Savings= $175
Hostess Received $ 338.00 worth of product for $78!
Consultant Cost $ 0.00
Consultant Earned $140.00 Cash
Shipping Costs were submitted to the company for them to sort, label product with Rep's contact info, pack and ship to hostess .
Let's Do a Larger Party
$875 in sales, 15 guests, 2 bookings and $200 in outside orders
$875 Party Sales + $200 in outside orders = $1075 in total sales
$100 Free Credit
$50 Bonus Shopping Free
2 Hostess Exclusives -7th Heaven Bullet – Cost to Hostess $14.00 ( she saves $40)
-Ultra Waterproof Rabbit – Cost to Hostess $27.00 (she saves $92)
$300 Hostess Monthly Special- Cost to Hostess $29 (she saves $70)
$500 Hostess Special- Cost to Hostess $42 (she saves $134)
1 item at 70% off ( buying guests) Say $50 Item – Cost to Hostess $15 ( she saves $35)
1 item at 65% off ( 1st booking) Say $50 Item – Cost to hostess $17.50 ( she saves $32.50)
$35 Free Shopping ( 2nd booking)
Total Free $185
Total Savings $ 403.50
Hostess Received $ 733.00 for $103.50
Consultant Cost $0.00
Consultant Earnings $430.00
Shipping Costs were submitted to the company for them to sort, label product with Rep's contact info, pack and ship to hostess .
Team Building Commissions and Bonuses
Suzie has 10 first line recruits who are selling $2,000 a month
Team credited for $20,000 in sales
Suzie is a Managing Regional Director!
She earns 7% on her first line and now earns 50% commissions on all personal sales! Woohoo!
$20,000 x.07 = $1400.00 commission just on her first line
Oh, But wait… she also gets a $500 Mangement Bonus!
Total Monthly Commission Check = $1900.00
That's $500 more a month than a "wholesale" company pays you!
$500x12 = $6,000 extra a year!
Don't forget now, she now earns 50% commissions on all her personal sales forever she can never go down again!
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